"Women need foreplay, especially the first time"? They need it EVERY TIME, even if it's the 1000th time! Once a man has an erection, he doesn't NEED anything, but he will surely appreciate some attention while you're getting yours.
Your questions indicate that you aren't ready for this because you don't have a clue. You may DO it, but it won't be the exciting pleasure you think it will be. You are only 16, and you have a lifetime to be sexually active, and you will be "in love" many times before you finally figure out what "love" really is. Don't be in such a hurry.
I see the original post has been edited out, but tish raised a good point.
>>Men enjoy having foreplay done on them also<<
My partner tends to go straight for the intercourse and orgasm - she can go from whoa to go in seconds and hardly needs any foreplay. Unfortunately, that means we often miss out completely and I miss that when it happens. I can cope without it once or twice but after a while I really crave some good foreplay! It just isn't the same without lots of foreplay.
I LOVE FOREPLAY!!.. for me and my boyfriend, he likes to kiss my neck and suck on my breasts and he also rubs his hands all over my vagina. i get aroused and feel soo WANTED. He always whispers in my ear, how he loves my body and how soft my body and lips are and that turns me on even more.. he knows exactly what to do & say. <333
"Women need foreplay, especially the first time"? They need it EVERY TIME, even if it's the 1000th time! Once a man has an erection, he doesn't NEED anything, but he will surely appreciate some attention while you're getting yours.
Your questions indicate that you aren't ready for this because you don't have a clue. You may DO it, but it won't be the exciting pleasure you think it will be. You are only 16, and you have a lifetime to be sexually active, and you will be "in love" many times before you finally figure out what "love" really is. Don't be in such a hurry.
Foreplay isn't especially for the first time, it's for every time.
I see the original post has been edited out, but tish raised a good point.
>>Men enjoy having foreplay done on them also<<
My partner tends to go straight for the intercourse and orgasm - she can go from whoa to go in seconds and hardly needs any foreplay. Unfortunately, that means we often miss out completely and I miss that when it happens. I can cope without it once or twice but after a while I really crave some good foreplay! It just isn't the same without lots of foreplay.
She said she knows women need foreplay to get wet but do men need foreplay with a handjob or oral.
I LOVE FOREPLAY!!.. for me and my boyfriend, he likes to kiss my neck and suck on my breasts and he also rubs his hands all over my vagina. i get aroused and feel soo WANTED. He always whispers in my ear, how he loves my body and how soft my body and lips are and that turns me on even more.. he knows exactly what to do & say. <333
Nalei'