foreskin question

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Registered: 11-10-2003
foreskin question
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Wed, 09-06-2006 - 5:03pm
my boyfriend of a year has a condition where he can't pull the foreskin back enough becuase it hurts. It's pulled back enough to expose the head but when he's inside me, it pulls it back further and it hurts him. Now this leads to a problem, because he can enter me but he can't have an orgasm that way. I can't use manual stimation on him either. He's never had a orgasm with me, this worries me, because we have mismatched drives, i want more, and he always brings me to orgasm manually but then it ends. It's like we're not in it together, and that sexual passion is not there becuase we know that he will never get to the climactic state. Has anyone ever experienced this? I need more information / advice on how to handle this.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 09-15-2006 - 9:45pm

I'm not even sure that it's something that you "buy" through a Doctor and I'm not sure that it's something that is manufactured in bulk. It's a technique rather than an actual thing as far as I know. I suspect that many Doctors probably make them out of all sorts of things or maybe even convert other things to do the job. It's definitely something that he needs to see his Doctor about.

Try to convince him that the Doctors are used to seeing this sort of thing. After all if there are specialists that make a good living out of seeing hundreds of people with these problems (and much worse ones) then most of these people probably start out by seeing their Doctor first. It's just another body part to a Doctor. His Doctor won't be embarrassed and will only want to be professional and get him the help that he needs.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sat, 09-16-2006 - 1:05am
Good one Humpdaddy......it's nice to see SOME people have a sense of humor.....these boards have been so SERIOUS lately!
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Mon, 09-18-2006 - 9:05am

Hi,

I think naturally foreskin will be little tight unless u practise to take that foreskin back.I too had tight foreskin before,I felt that when I started to masturbate initially.Then I slowly started to pull back daily basis.I use to massage penis daily with some oil which makes easy to pull back fore skin,usually watching some porn ;-) so that I can practise it while penis is fully erected.This also makes head desensitize bit(usualy who us having foreskin,their head will be very sensitive which makes ejaculate early) so that I can last long.That helped me alot,now I can move foresk easily.

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