FREAKIN SMALL MAN!

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Registered: 04-21-2003
FREAKIN SMALL MAN!
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Wed, 06-16-2004 - 8:06pm
MET THIS GUY FOR TWO WEEKS. EVERYTHING WENT FINE. I FINALLY DECIDE TO DO IT WITH HIM. FOUND OUT THAT I FELT NOTHING AT ALL. I KNOW PEOPLE TELL ME SIZE DOESNT MATTER BUT HOW CAN YOU EVEN ENJOY SEX IF YOU CANT FEEL ANY PENETRATION WHATSOEVER. BASICALLY I ONLY DID IT WITH HIM ONE TIME THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I WAS SO TURNED OFF. DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER. I KNOW IF I END UP DATING THIS GUY, I WOULDNT WANT SEX FROM HIM. THINKING ABOUT IT NOW, MAKES ME NOT WANT TO EVEN TALK TO HIM AGAIN.


Edited 6/16/2004 8:08 pm ET ET by connie2111

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 1:55am
Wow exactly what I was thinking....maybe her vagina is too big, loose and flabby...then she would need a really huge one to really "feel it"....

It is just too easy to blame everything on the man....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 1:58am
Kats think alike. It takes two to tango so she could make sex better if she wanted to.
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Registered: 12-29-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 6:43am
Actually, you're right. There may be something the woman can do about it. There was a woman on here a while back who said she had a BF who was small and she started doing Kegels to strengthen her PC muscles and started having orgasms during intercourse for the first time.

taoist.
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Registered: 11-13-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 7:31am
GROW UP, CONNIE!!!!!

CARE TO TELL US YOUR BUST SIZE, HIP MEASUREMENTS, OR WHETHER YOU'VE GOT ANY FLAB?

WITH YOUR KIND OF ATTITUDE, I'LL BET HE'S GOT SOME CHOICE CRITICISMS FOR YOU, TOO!!!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 11:19am
GEE, imagine THAT? LOL!

Yes, kegels definitely would help but they won't change the size of the vagina. Based on her reaction to his member, though, I have a feeling that the OP is used to having a very large guy and she won't ever be satisfied with anything less.


Edited 6/17/2004 11:21 am ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 2:58pm
I have to say this is too funny. All of you could be right in my opinion. And yes, if she felt nothing, some serious kegals are in order. LOL Maybe she can only feel large guys, and if that is the case, one of these days she wont even feel them. LOL. Anyway, Connie, I would tell you to GET A HEART. If this poor guy is that small, I am sure he has a lot of feelings for you before ever showing you what he has. I know I would really have to love, and or trust a person if I was as small as your post implies. Or, here's a good one. He may be average sized and like others have said, you are too big??? That would explain the lack of embarassment the first time you saw it. LOL This guy deserves a whole lot better, so best to let him go so he can find a girl who will love him for his good talents. Namely his mind and heart. Enough said, as I really don't want to get too mean spiritied here. One last thing. Sorry.

It is girls lik eyou that make men worry so much about our penis size. And it's girls like you that leave men crushed and afraid the next time the get into a relationship. Whether you tell him the reason or not, I am sure he will get the drift.

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 3:06pm
just a comment: Certain types of women can actually decrease penis size!.

Men's penis's are affected by women lovers!

In a good way by kindness and in a bad way by insults or negative attitudes.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 3:42pm
Guys guys guys, why attack someone that takes the time to come on the board to discuss her experiences. It's the one thing I have found here, and on other boards, that are really very disappointing.

We all make choices about what we like and dislike in our partners, whether it be physical, emotional, or intellectual. With parts of the body used for sex, (that of course you can't even know about beforehand), I can easily imagine we get to have personal freedom of making those choices too. Yeah, maybe it was such a shock to Connie that she came here to talk about it. If she really expected to have everyone tell her she's close to a saint for reacting the way she did (and of course she didn't) all of you would be justified at slamming her ... otherwise maybe treating her with the same respect as you expect her to exercise would be in order ... Thanks!

Michael


Edited 6/17/2004 3:55 pm ET ET by sexyiq

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 4:30pm
Michael, I don't think anyone attacked the OP. She asked for opinions on her feelings and she got them. And each person has the right to express them, in their own way, within the TOS guidelines.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 6:02pm

I don't feel she was attacked.


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