Freaky or Not be Freaky??

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Registered: 07-06-2005
Freaky or Not be Freaky??
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 5:24pm
I LOVE TO BE FREAKY!! I LOVE TOYS, WHIPS, CHAINS,ANAL,ORAL,DOGGIESTYLE,AND ETC. BUT MY MAN IS NOT INTO ALL OF THE THINGS I LIKE?? I WANT TO STAY WITH HIM BUT I CAN'T CONTINUE TO HIDE MY INNERFREAK!! WHAT TO DO LADIES???
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 5:45pm

These are things the two of you will have to talk about.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-08-2005 - 11:54am

Then, maybe he's not the man for you. It might help if you were completely upfront about your particular interests, specifically the S&M gear, before ever going there with a future partner.

But we should never just expect a partner to do everything we might desire, or anything that they may feel is weird, wrong or scary.

Chains, whips, etc. are pretty extreme, IMO, and a specific interest and definitely should not be expected unless discussed before. The rest are pretty negotiable, I think.