Freaky or Not be Freaky??
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Freaky or Not be Freaky??
| Wed, 07-06-2005 - 5:24pm |
I LOVE TO BE FREAKY!! I LOVE TOYS, WHIPS, CHAINS,ANAL,ORAL,DOGGIESTYLE,AND ETC. BUT MY MAN IS NOT INTO ALL OF THE THINGS I LIKE?? I WANT TO STAY WITH HIM BUT I CAN'T CONTINUE TO HIDE MY INNERFREAK!! WHAT TO DO LADIES???

These are things the two of you will have to talk about.
Then, maybe he's not the man for you. It might help if you were completely upfront about your particular interests, specifically the S&M gear, before ever going there with a future partner.
But we should never just expect a partner to do everything we might desire, or anything that they may feel is weird, wrong or scary.
Chains, whips, etc. are pretty extreme, IMO, and a specific interest and definitely should not be expected unless discussed before. The rest are pretty negotiable, I think.