Friend With Benefits Question

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Friend With Benefits Question
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Thu, 01-04-2007 - 10:01pm

My first time (was recent) and with a sort of "FWB" ... is this a bad thing?? I mean... sure I told him that I know it's not a relationship so it's not about love or anything. And I feel okay about it...I'm not obsessing over him like a boyfriend or anything. But it was great and I want to do it with him again - soon - he's away on a trip right now so I don't know when we will see each other again.

It gets complicated because he's 16 years older than me and we have been seriously *just friends* for over two years. I DO have feelings for him...as in ... I care about him (obviously ... we're friends). I don't think I'm *in love* with him. Just really attracted to him - especially since he was my first lover and it went so well. Any thoughts?? Thanks. P.s. nice to meet you all!

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Registered: 01-04-2007
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 4:21pm
Very good advice bears.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 5:55pm
Why would you want your first time to be with someone that you have no real feelings for? Just curious.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-08-2007 - 5:56pm
Appreciate your honesty, guy.

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