Friends with benefits
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| Sun, 03-19-2006 - 4:10pm |
I have a question about Friends with Benefits. I am a single woman who just turned 30. I m in my sexual prime. I can feel it :-) However, I am at a stage in life where I don't have time to get involved with anyone. I want to focus on my school, career etc. However, I am noticing my human desires taking over sometimes and I have come to realize that I am a healthy sexual woman entering her prime. Picking up men for one night stand in a bar doesn't appeal to me to for two reasons. One is too much hassles for little gain but most of all, safety is a big concern of mine.
I have a male friend who I have had sex with in the past. We have had a great time. He is in a similar situation as me. Too busy to get involved. We have always joked and flirted. I get a feeling he is looking for the same thing but is afraid to approach me about it, incase, I get offended and lose my friendship over it. I guess he is trying to be a gentleman. Its a touchy situation and hard to approach.
We have talked and flirted about sex from time to time. I can sense that he is definately interested in having sex with me and so am I. Interested in having sex with him again.
Here is my question, I would like to ask him or proposition him if we can be friends with benefits. Do you think its okay to do so? I definately realize that this will be friends with benefits as the name suggests and nothing more.
Also, I have never had that kind of a relationship with anyone. Do they work?
Thanks!!
8-)

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