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Friends with benefits
| Sat, 01-22-2005 - 9:29pm |
What do you guys think about freinds with benefits,(no strings attached, good clean fun)? Or having two friends with benefits who both know about eachother and don't care?

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Sometimes I miss college for just this reason! I thik for some people friends with benifits can be a good thing as long as you don't want more. It's more then a one night stand but not a relationship. Like I said they can be great and somethimes they turn out to be more so don't do anything with anyone who's friendship you can't live without.
~Kelly
www.kellyfitzpatrick.com
the fwb thing is a tough one...
I presently have a friend with benefits who i've been fooling around with for about 10 years. we didn't always have sex, but the arrangement is the same. i call him a hobby. something to keep me busy when i get bored.
it works and it doesn't work.
mine started out as a crush, so there was already a little more emotional investment on my end. but i've used him nearly as much as he's used me.
i think the key, and it's something i'm trying to straighten out with the hobby at the moment, is to talk it through. if both people know for certain there was never any chance of a relationship, it would be easier to bail out when one side becomes more emotionally attached.
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