frustrated

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Registered: 08-03-2007
frustrated
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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 1:49pm

ive been debating on posting this for a while, but i finally got fed up and gave in. i'm new, please dont mind my scatterbrain setup.

ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now and have great sex, but i cant reach and O, but he can. just when i think its going to happen, it hurts and everything becomes very sensitive and i cant take it anymore so i tell him to stop. i'm on a number of meds, including BC...could that be a factor with not getting an O??? i feel bad because he always says its him that cant get me off, when i know its me, and im sick of leaving him feeling like he sucks, cuz he deff. doesnt.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: roost1987
Sat, 08-04-2007 - 10:42pm

Welcome to the board roost1987.

A lot of females have difficulty having an orgasm, especially during intercourse. Birth Control can affect your hormones and your lubrication, so they can play a factor into the situation. Are you able to have an orgasm during masturbation? Have you tried showing him what works for you then?

He can't make you have an orgasm, but he can help you have an orgasm. Since it all begins with you, you might want to visit the website www.the-clitoris.com. The website gives a lot of information about your body and what you need for sexual pleasure. Having him review it too might make him feel better by helping him to understand that it's just more complicated for women.



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