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Frusturated
| Thu, 03-06-2008 - 11:00pm |
I have been frustrated about this for some time now. Anytime my girlfriend goes down on me, I'm never able to finish. I'm not sure what the problem is because I've never been able to ejaculate anytime when a girl goes down on me. I don't know what to do because it not only makes me disappointed, but makes her think she's not doing something right. Is there anything wrong with me? Please help.

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You're not alone!
Make sure you (she) uses a nice amount of a high quality lubricant - perhaps try one of the new "warming" kinds.
A good quality (water based) liquid lubricant is so
As ladybug said, STOP focusing on it.
Welcome to the board, medievalman.
I agree with the others that if you think about it, you're putting pressure on yourself that will make your goal that much further away.
The sensations can be different, which could contribute to you not ejaculating during oral. When she is performing oral, try fantasizing about something that you have enjoyed or something you may have seen in porn to get your mind in the right zone.
Also, on the lube suggestion, they make flavored lubes that are great for oral sex. Many lubes are not meant to be used during oral, and can be nasty (don't even know if they would be healthy) to taste. I do think lube might make it nicer for you, but would recommend getting one that is for oral.
If your GF is okay with it, you could suggest she try performing oral after intercourse (but before you have ejaculated). This way, you're already closer to the point of orgasm. She won't have to work for as long to get you there, and during IC, you will have the opportunity to start fantasizing about cumming during oral.
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