Fun?

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Registered: 12-09-2005
Fun?
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Sun, 10-01-2006 - 9:49am
BF and I have been together for 1.7 years and have been having sex (both virgins prior to this) since June. I am loving it and I am glad we waited so long. I haven't orgasamed yet though, but I have read up a lot on it from other questions on this board so I'm not going to get into that.
Pretty much so far we have just had pretty basic sex, which I liked for starting off. We have tried missionary, me on top, & doggy style. What are some ways we can add a bit more excitement to sex, now that I think we are ready for it? We both want a bit more fun, but I think we are still a bit nervous making sure we are pleasing each other. Will it come with time, or can you think of any games/teasers/new positions for us to try out? I would love to hear your thoughts.

                             
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2006
In reply to: nat_c_123
Sun, 10-01-2006 - 10:37am
DW and I have been experimenting with erotic games and stripteases to help get us in the mood. I think having more foreplay seems to help. Hope this helps and good luck- just relax and have fun and it should get better.
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Registered: 12-09-2005
In reply to: nat_c_123
Sun, 10-01-2006 - 4:54pm
Thanks for the ideas. The problem is, we are both still living at home and don't get a ton of time home alone, so I'm constantly worried we're going to get walked in on.

                             
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: nat_c_123
Sun, 10-01-2006 - 7:10pm

I always found that it's virtually impossible to have a really interesting sex life when you're living at home and constantly aware that you might be interrupted at any time. I think that was just about the single biggest motivation for me to leave home and find my own place.

Still, where there is a will there is a way. How about saving up and getting a motel or hotel room once every-so-often? You could probably introduce some sex toys - although that will require a visit to a store as you don't really want a courier package turning up in your parent's letterbox. Lingerie might be nice - although washing it might be tricky and require some explaining to Mum :-)

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: nat_c_123
Mon, 10-02-2006 - 4:25am
Buy a Trojan Vibrating Ring. It is small and fits on the base of his penis to stimulate your clitoris during intercourse. They are available in drugstores where condoms are sold; however they are not allowed to be sold in some states. Check the Trojan website. Have fun!