"g" spot!

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Registered: 05-18-2008
"g" spot!
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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 2:33am
I keep hearing people talking about the girl "g" spot that is very important in sex. Can anyone tell me what is the "g" spot? I don't know what is that.
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Registered: 03-03-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 3:23am

It is in essence the equivalent to the male prostate gland and is a highly errogenous zone in many women (not all).

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:33am

Welcome to the board, watuwanz.

Laura gave you a great link for info on the g-spot. On me, I think it's a bit further, so I'd say anywhere in the first 2 inches or so. A good position to find the spot is to have her lay on her back with her buttocks propped up on a couple of pillows. The tilt seems to be helpful for locating it. Use one or two of your fingers inside of her and make a "come hither" motion (toward the ceiling).

So, when that spot is stimulated, as the arousal builds, she might have the feeling that she needs to pee. If she goes with that feeling, then she will FE (Female Ejaculate). During FE, a thin, clear liquid will come out of her urethra -- it's a copious amount, so protect the bedding in advance.

With or without the FE, it's an amazing orgasm, often leading to multiples.


ETA: There are theories that the g-spot doesn't exist. Those theories are derived by people who haven't experienced g-spot orgasms, IMO. While you may not discover the g-spot right away, keep trying -- it's well worth the effort! You can also purchase sex toys that are designed for g-spot stimulation.


















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Registered: 05-08-2008
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:56am
"Just the Facts on the G-Spot"

"If sex myths have such power over men’s thinking about their own anatomy, they have even more sway when it comes to female partners’ bodies -- especially the much-debated G-spot.


Named after a German doctor, Ernst Gräfenberg, who first wrote about an erogenous zone in the anterior vaginal wall, the G-spot was popularized by a 1982 book called … The G-spot. This region behind the pubic bone is often credited as the trigger for a vaginal (vs. clitoral) orgasm, and even a catalyst for female ejaculation.


At the same time, the G-spot is commonly derided as perpetuating the myth ensconced by Sigmund Freud -- namely, that the clitoral orgasm is a "lesser" form of climax than the vaginal orgasm, which requires penile penetration. As Ian Kerner summarizes, “In Freud’s view, there were no two ways about it: If a woman couldn’t be satisfied by penetrative sex, something must be wrong with her.”


The G-spot’s existence is still debated, and whether it’s fact or fiction depends on whom you ask.


“The G-spot exists,” says Seth Prosterman. “It’s a source of powerful orgasm for a percentage of women.”


“I don’t think the G-spot exists,” says Ira Sharlip. “As urologists, we operate in that area and there just isn’t anything there -- there’s no anatomical structure that’s there.”


Prosterman and others point out the importance of thinking of the G-spot in context -- that it may be an extension of the clitoral anatomy, which extends back into the vaginal canal. Kerner writes that the G-spot may be “nothing more than the roots of the clitoris crisscrossing the urethral sponge.”


Helen O’Connell, MD, head of the neurourology and continence unit at the Royal Melbourne Hospital Department of Urology in Australia, says, “The G-spot has a lot in common with Freud's idea of vaginal orgasms. It is a sexual concept, this time anatomical, that results in confusion and has resulted in the misconception that female sexuality is extremely complex.”