G Spot Orgasm

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Registered: 10-15-2004
G Spot Orgasm
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Mon, 04-04-2005 - 7:27pm

My DW and I are going to buy a G spot vibrator and try to give her a G spot orgasm. For those that have achieved this, what is the best way to do it? I have heard that it is easiest if she gets close to a clitoral orgasm first, then start in on the G spot area. What tips and techniques have worked for you?

Also, do you squirt or does it just flow out? I am very curious to see how wet she will get.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: iblasters
Tue, 04-05-2005 - 12:01am

You're confusing a "g" spot orgasm with female ejaculation. They are two entirely different things. A "g" spot orgasm is an orgasm, just like any other orgasm, possibly a little more intense, that's all. FE is something completely separate from orgasms. She might, but she might not. If she does, be prepared to have your bed completely soaked, so it might be wise to protect it..and a towel will not be enough.

First you have to FIND the "g" spot, and I think it's a lot easier with your fingers than with a vibrator. Second, you won't "feel" anything different, but she will, and she'll tell you when you've found the right spot. Some women seem not to have the same sensitivity there that others do....so you might not even be able to find it. Do you know where to look? It's on the front wall of the vagina, about an inch or so up...imagine it being the back side of the clitoris, and it IS the same bundle of nerve endings that are in the clitoris.

If and when you DO find it.....forget about the vibrator, and give her the "venus butterfly", which is rubbing the "g" spot gently with your finger while giving her oral clitoral stimulation.

I'd say save your money and use your finger......

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: iblasters
Tue, 04-05-2005 - 11:12am

Does your wife enjoy g-spot stimulation? Have you tried it manually or through specific positions during intercourse?

Not all women have sensitive g-spots nor do all women ejaculate. I enjoy g-spot massage but I never ejaculate. So, really, it's best not to make assumptions at this point.

I would recommend that you allow her to experiment with any new sex toy alone so that she doesn't feel pressured to perform or inhibited the first time. Then, she can share what she discovers with you.

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Registered: 01-07-2005
In reply to: iblasters
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 5:27am

My current man is the only man who's given me a g-spot orgasm (penile penetration only) and he's also the first man I've ejaculated with. Up till tonight, I thought all mine did was flow out (yes, you will soak your bed) but tonight he slipped out in the midst and I witnessed a geyser (kinda embarrasing - yet very cool). I asked him if he's seen anything like that before and he said once.

Have fun!

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Registered: 04-01-2003
In reply to: iblasters
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 6:55am

I got one of those Gspot vibes 5 years ago and I'm STILL trying to find mine! We've tried manual stimulation, and yes, it does feel different from the surrounding tissues so I know where it is and so does DH. And when I've been on top, I've felt sensations increase that felt like it *might* end up being something....but it never does.

So don't feel pressured - you or her - to find it, because you may not. Just enjoy the journey no matter what the destination.

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Registered: 03-09-2005
In reply to: iblasters
Wed, 04-06-2005 - 5:20pm
Before I knew what a g-spot was, my DW drew a diagram of the female body and showed it to me without calling it by name. But she did tell me that it is a sensitive area which, when hit, brings heightened pleasures. She then told me when I hit that spot for her it's like "KAPOW". Talk about a boost to the ego. Later, through reading materials as well as these message boards, I learned that it was the g-spot. As we were making love one time recently she told me I was hitting that spot again. Her reaction was confirmation. Music to my ears and boost to my ego. As we talked about it later, I let her know that I knew it was her g-spot she was talking about. She gave me a look as though to say, "you're learning, I've taught you well."