G-Spot Q
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G-Spot Q
| Mon, 03-21-2005 - 5:07pm |
After a recent fingering episode with my boyfriend, he joked about having "mapped me out," and then explain in rather nice, naughty detail what everything felt like. But what confused me was that he noticed two bumps -- one that was fuzzy and one that was very smooth.
I seem to get more out of the smooth bump (intenser) than the fuzzy one. ((Oh, God, I've got a mental image of the 'Get Fuzzy' comic strip in my head now... uugh))
Um... excuse me? Can anyone tell me if this is something to worry about, or if it's natural? I should mention that both of us were virgins and never had any other sexual partners beforehand.

Ok, the first thing you need to understand is that every human being is different. Sure, we all have the same "parts", but they're slightly different in every one of us. We all have different size & shape fingers, toes, noses, eyes, etc. The same holds true of our genitals. Guys penises come in different sizes, shapes, even colors! Some have larger heads, some have smaller. Women differ from one to the other too. Our labia can be bigger, smaller, different shapes, and colors. Our clitorises are bigger, smaller, hooded, unhooded. EVERY one of these differences is "normal"....in other words, there's no one thing that's "normal" for every woman. We all have different "hot spots". Some women love their nipples tweaked, other women hate it. Some women love their ears blown into, or licked, other women hate it. Some women have NEVER found their "g" spot.
As for what your b/f "felt"....the "g" spot isn't a "button" or a "bump"....it's just an "area" that has a bundle of nerve endings, that feels good when stimulated. They're the same nerve endings that are associated with the clitoris, which also feels good when stimulated. What he was feeling was just the "normal" inside of the vagina, which is kind of lumpy and bumpy, until it's aroused, when it expands some, and smoothes out some.
I haven't got a clue what he meant by "fuzzy", but whatever it felt like to him, that's what it was. I can't imagine what you think you should worry about, and what he felt sounds perfectly natural to me. What it feels like to him is unimportant......what it feels like to you is what counts. If it feels good to you, then he should keep doing what he's doing.
Whatever you enjoy, that's "normal" for you. Whatever you don't enjoy, that's also "normal" for you. That doesn't mean it's "normal" for me. We are all different.
You also need to remember that guys are also all different. What your b/f likes, your next partner may hate. Every new partner, no matter how many you have, is a new learning experience. No matter how experienced a man or a woman is, every time they have a new partner, they have to learn what THAT person likes and wants. Take some time to learn about your body, and about his body. He should do the same. A good place to learn about how your body works is www.the-clitoris.com For his body, it's www.the-penis.com There's a lot of good info on both sites. Enjoy learning together. Learn to talk openly to each other, and tell each other what feels good, what doesn't feel good, what you like, and what you don't like. Neither of you is mind readers, communication is important. Don't ever hesitate to say......"yes, that feels great" OR "stop, I don't like that!"