Gah, so frustrating

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Registered: 09-08-2007
Gah, so frustrating
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Sat, 02-16-2008 - 11:53am

The last few times my fiancee and I have had sex I've gone

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Sat, 02-16-2008 - 12:14pm

FE is a unique feeling, but it's not an orgasm. I wouldn't focus on it, but if you want to try a glass of wine or two some night to help you relax, then that might be helpful.



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Registered: 09-08-2007
Sat, 02-16-2008 - 11:14pm

Maybe its something else entirely then, because it feels too me like the next O and that feeling are linked, as if one won't or can't happen without the other occurring, but because my head's in the way of my enjoyment it doesn't

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Sun, 02-17-2008 - 8:07am

You can do both together, or nearly together, so you may be accurate in what you are feeling. If you start focusing on the FE aspect, it's likely you would loose both.

I know I had the sensations for a long period of time before I could really go with it.



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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 02-29-2008 - 3:57am
When I FE it is usually accompanied with an orgasm, so I would say you are right in that you are probably just going to FE along with your orgasm. I don't really know what exactly to tell you, but that you have to let it go, no matter what your body is telling you. In fact, you can even push a little to let it happen. I don't know if that is really helpful to you or not, but that's all I've got ATM. Good luck, it's the best feeling in the world!