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| Thu, 05-17-2007 - 3:25pm |
I am married to a man who is 52 years old. I am 28. He has a bit of a heart problem and this leads to impotence. We have tried Viagra and this works...but we always run out of pills. I could have sex every night...but he only wants it two or three times a week. Plus, he can't do missionary or doggie or anything...I usually do woman-on-top. When I am on top it doesn't take him long to cum - maybe one or two minutes - and this is very disappointing for me.
My sexual desires are running amok...and he tries...he can get me to good orgasms by using his hands or toys...but I still crave more from him.
Sometimes I can get him really erect giving him head...only for him to go limp when I finally get him inside of me.
What can I do to enhance his experience and mine? I love him and would never hurt him in any way...but I am disappointed with our sex life.
Help!
My sexual desires are running amok...and he tries...he can get me to good orgasms by using his hands or toys...but I still crave more from him.
Sometimes I can get him really erect giving him head...only for him to go limp when I finally get him inside of me.
What can I do to enhance his experience and mine? I love him and would never hurt him in any way...but I am disappointed with our sex life.
Help!

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Does he do the run out of pills thing as a way to get out of sex? If so, you should take a more active role in making sure you have enough.
Have you been totally honest about your desire for more sex and has he tried to work with you.
If it's medical or he's being a tad stubborn, it seems like you're in quite of a pickle.
Welcome to the board beckie_okc.
Are you saying that he can't do different positions even with the use of Viagra? If that's the case, then it doesn't sound like Viagra is really working for him.
My DH is 54 and sometimes has erectile dysfunction (ED) as well. In his case, he has found that Viagra works very well, and only uses 1/2 pill. We don't need them often as his problems with ED are not "always". Since the insurance company will only let him have an Rx for 6 pills, that atleast increases it to 12. The medicine is very pricey, so that's good too.
There are also other medicines on the market that may work for him. They last longer, so that will be helpful to your situation. Cialis is one of them, and it lasts for 36 hours. Your DH could talk with his doctor and see if a different medication might be possible.
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