Getting On Another Horse...what to do?
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Getting On Another Horse...what to do?
| Wed, 06-30-2004 - 12:02pm |
I've only had sex with one guy in my life and that was my ex with whom was my longest relationship. And I'm talking, he the only one I have performed any and all types of sex with. Well, now that I'm talking to or seeing other guys I'm not exactly sure how far I should go with them, considering that now that I've done it all it doesn't seem as much as a big of deal as before. So, when I do decide to perform orally (not intercourse) on another guy should I be pressuring a condom. I don't care either way. It's just that as you all know, when you're in the moment things happen and we may not have something available at the time. And I'm a "you give some, you get some" type of person. What are some of your opinions on this?

I wonder if you'll have the same attitude when you're diagnosed with an STD? If you don't know a man, or what his sexual practices have been....you're at risk. Granted, chances are nothing will happen.....but why do you think the spread of STD's is so rampant? Because of people who think it can't happen to THEM.
I doubt very much if you'd be happy to come up with herpes or HIV! If you care about your safety and health, as Tish said.....carry condoms with you, and then you won't have to be "in the moment"....you can be sure you're safe.
PS: any man who'd have sex in any form without a condom, with a woman he doesn't know....doesn't have much regard for his own health, either. If he'd do it with you, then he's done it with others. Good Luck!
Just slip it on in a sexy way.
Leticia