getting him to be rougher
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| Mon, 12-19-2005 - 4:49pm |
Overall I have a good sex life and i'm happy with it... but there are times i wish i could get my partner to be rougher with me. I like being over powered occasionally, and being bitten when ever i can get it. I've brought it up a few time with him.... and i'll give him credit he has tried but never quite gotten it right... like he'll nip me but lets go to soon. Or pins my hands but again releases them after a minute.
He's never said anything but i suspect he's worried about hurting me. He is a lot stronger then i am... and a more then a couple years my senior and i think the combination makes him see me a lot more fragile then i am.
I'm trying to figure out how to get him to see that these are things i really like and i'm not going to break. I'm sure if i could just get him give me one good bite he'd catch on really fast that i REALLY like it.
Any ideas?
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I agree with what others have written but wanted to share my own story/suggestion.
Recently I stumbled upon the erotic writings of Lora Leigh and there's a DomSub theme to it.