Getting him excited vs. teasing?
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Getting him excited vs. teasing?
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 7:43pm |
Hey Okay...I haven't had sex for a week and I don't want to say horny cuz I just think that's kind of a perverted way of saying..I love him and I just need him. Anyways I'm planning on getting a bit adventurous Friday. I don't want to completely give him head...I wanna kind of tease him but I don't want to be a TEASE. We are going to have sex so I'm thinking...if I just get under the sheets and kiss and lick and whatever else do you do down there other than that?
Techniques plz...what do I do to get him reeved up but not cumming all over my face *hurl*
Also...where's the teasing and getting him excited line? I really don't want to be a tease...I don't want to go down on him I just wanna play around but is that a tease?
Also...we usually undress each other pretty quickly when we start getting in the bedroom but I was wondering if I like keep my bra and thong on when I'm being all "adventurous" is that a turn on? I don't want to ask him yet I want to experiment with a bunch of ways and see what he reacts to more. Is thisa good strategy?? lol

How to get him revved up but not blow early? It's simply a matter of reading his body. When you give him oral - or a hand job - whatever - you gauge his movements to see how close he is. When his whole body starts to tense up, it means he's getting close. At which point you slow down or change what you're doing. Perhaps turn around and let him pleasure you for a while.
Leaving the underwear on? Could be fun. Some guys like it all off, some like some of it on. I guess that you can leave it on and find out. Make a point of making him leave it on you - just because you can. Personally my partner loves the sensation of leaving the g-string on and just pushing it to one side during intercourse sometimes. She likes the naughty sensations sometimes. A new, sexy matching set of something might be nice for a thrill. Needn't be expensive. Anything matching (especially in black) looks great.
oh dear, is that considered corny? LOL. I've been using the line "don't cum just yet, I want more later" for ages.
No, that's not. I think that the "I'll make waiting worth the wait" bit is the corny part! ;-)