Getting old? Getting rusty? Or what?

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Registered: 05-21-2007
Getting old? Getting rusty? Or what?
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Mon, 06-25-2007 - 4:48pm

I have noticed a really wierd thing with my current gf, I just thought of it. Maybe it's just that I'm getting older, but I don't think that is all of it: with this girl I cum REALLY hard, but then I'm out of commission for at least a day. By that I just mean while I can have sex and such, there's no need b/c I'm not horny for another 48 hours or so. Yesterday she gave me a bj and I came so hard I could barely walk afterward, and even today things still feel a bit sensitive down there -- it's like the prostate muscle was so stressed it was actually tender. I mean with most girls I have had sex a couple of times a day, at least part of the time. With this one my system doesn't physically desire it. She's awesome, it's just a different physical sensation I have.

Has this ever happened to anyone else? Is my game just getting rusty?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 5:23pm

Perhaps your libido is just lowering a bit. I'm not a guy, so I don't know what else to offer. Hopefully, others will be along with better advice for you.

How does your GF feel about it? Does she seem satisfied, or is she wanting to have sex more frequently. Also, are you still able to have sex, just not the desire on those days?



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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 11:24pm

Age certainly has nothing to do with it. I'm puzzled by your "prostate muscle" remark.....the prostate isn't a muscle, it's a gland, and it or anything around it shouldn't get "sore".

I don't know how old you are, and actually age has no bearing on it, but how long since you've seen your doctor for a physical? It's possible you're having a prostate problem, and you should have that checked out. It might be enlarged, and that might be why you're having a problem after ejaculating......and/or taking 2 days to get ready again. My friend's son is only 35, and he had a big problem with his prostate recently. Make an appt. and get it checked......the sooner the better.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 06-26-2007 - 1:08am
I don't like the sound of things being physically tender. Might pay to get it checked out, you know? I could understand if she tugged your testicles or something during the job, but if its just from cumming? Hmm. Dunno.
As for the lack of libido - it's age for sure. I'm the same. I cum really hard with my wife too. I've noticed that I'm taking longer to recoop and I'm still interested all the time :-) Mind is willing but the body isn't.