Getting Over Embarassment of Toy Store
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Getting Over Embarassment of Toy Store
| Fri, 03-18-2005 - 6:02pm |
How do you overcome your embarassment of going into a toy store with other adults in there also buying toys?

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Very easily, I buy online.
Very easily. Ignore them. That's what they're doing to you as well. Many of them are just as nervous.
That being said, I'd go with someone your first time (preferably a male) if you don't know the place.
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I actually had my busi. suit on when I went to get that secret gift for Mrs. Para late last year at the adult store we have closer toward town.
I can't explain it, but I think everyone knew that I was a very serious customer who was frustrated with the selection, and they knew I was trying to surprise her. I wasn't afraid to ask questions or anything, even what the reviews were.
Here's what I think made the difference though, I made it aware that I was trying to surprise my wife as opposed to shopping for myself.
Perhaps it'd be that much easier for us if our S.O. was with us unless its a surprise. Often seems to help by what I've heard/read. For me, time was so short that I walked in executive style without a chance to go home and change first. I came in with a demand and requested some help and before I knew it they acted as if I was going to fire them! LOL!!! They were more nervous than "I" was! ;D
Anyway, my two cents for free.
C H A R A C T E R
A) Cover story, ask and talk out loud about needing a gag gift for a bachelorette party
B) If your embarrassed anyway, then make it outrageous and have fun. Speak up and ask others what there favorite toy is and see how embarrassed THEY get
C) After 20 mins not finding what you want, do what my wife and I did, swallow your modesty and tell the clerk what you are looking for. In our case, we wanted to try anal, it was something neither of us had done in previous relationships so it was our "virginity" together. But being a true manly man, I told her I didnt want her to do anything I would do first. SO we flat out told the clerk we were looking for a strap on for her to wear and do me anally, but everything on the shelves was terrifyingly large. He knew just what we wanted and got us a modest 5 1/2 incher. If embarrassment had kept us from speaking up wed still be anal virgins.
BTW, I enjoyed it more than my wife, one long prolonged orgasm, whew
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