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Getting soft
| Fri, 11-10-2006 - 2:02pm |
In addition to my other post:
My sex partner and I each have had no problems staying aroused during sex. Given, alot of our sexual encounters are rushed and short, but when we do have sex for a longer period of time, it is usually 45-75 minutes. The other night, we were watching porno. (we enjoy doing this a lot) He was flipping through the scene selections, and we stopped for maybe 4-5 minutes while he was finding something he was in the mood for, he then went to the couch, grabbed a blanket. When we started up again, he was soft. I was surprised, given he has never gone soft- But is this normal especially if we stopped for those few minutes?? Does him going soft mean he was not aroused or lost interest during those few minutes?
Maybe this is totally normal, I don't know...Men? Any comments? Women, any experience with this?
Thanks!!
Igrl
My sex partner and I each have had no problems staying aroused during sex. Given, alot of our sexual encounters are rushed and short, but when we do have sex for a longer period of time, it is usually 45-75 minutes. The other night, we were watching porno. (we enjoy doing this a lot) He was flipping through the scene selections, and we stopped for maybe 4-5 minutes while he was finding something he was in the mood for, he then went to the couch, grabbed a blanket. When we started up again, he was soft. I was surprised, given he has never gone soft- But is this normal especially if we stopped for those few minutes?? Does him going soft mean he was not aroused or lost interest during those few minutes?
Maybe this is totally normal, I don't know...Men? Any comments? Women, any experience with this?
Thanks!!
Igrl

Hey,
I have had a similar experience, my BF has no problem getting hard & staying hard unless we've had sex a few times before (ex. 3 -4). He also will get distracted sometimes by different things and lose his erection momentarily. He ALWAYS gets it back though. If he doesn't get it back, that's when you should be worried.
Sexy