Getting on Top
Find a Conversation
Getting on Top
| Tue, 12-26-2006 - 12:03pm |
Someone any one please help me here....
My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over a year. I love him so much and the sex we have is great. But lately its starting to bother me that we have done nothing but me on top of him as a sexual position. I've mentioned it to him but when the time comes nothing changes he has made a few unfulfilled promises to get on top of me one day but never does. My boyfriend is overweight and I'm worried that he is handling the situation the way he is because he is self-concious. I'm not sure how to get what I want without being rude or selfish. Any advice?

Getting what you want is neither rude or selfish, unless you say it in a rude or selfish way. Asking nicely hasn't gotten you anywhere, though, has it?
Next comes the "talk"......meaning some communication, outside the bedroom. Tell him how you're feeling. Tell him you'd like some variety in your sex life, because great as WOT is, there's a lot more things that the two of you can do to spice things up.
Maybe it's his weight, or maybe it's just plain laziness on his part. Either way, it has to change. There are other positions that he can use that his weight won't enter into, like doggie style, or side by side....or hundreds of others. (Check out the Kama Sutra on line!)
Nothing but one position in a whole year IS boring.....so start talking. Good Luck!