Girl fantasies

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Registered: 06-05-2007
Girl fantasies
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Tue, 06-05-2007 - 11:27pm
I often find myself fantasizing about having sex with other girls when I masturbate. Only thing is I am a female myself. I have a boyfriend and I am straight. Is is normal to have these fantasies?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 7:27am

Welcome to the board miami-kitty.

People often have fantasies about things that they would not necessarily do IRL. I don't think that you are having an "abnormal" fantasy, as I know other women have mentioned fantasizing about the same thing. Perhaps you have a curiosity about being with another woman, perhaps your SO has mentioned the intrigue of watching you with another woman, perhaps you have seen women together in porn ... it's difficult to say exactly what could be fueling your fantasy.

It's very common for women to fantasize about being with multiple partners at one time, being raped, being in gang bangs, etc. It doesn't mean they would want to live their fantasy IRL.



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Registered: 05-11-2007
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 8:37am
I fantazied about that the first few years after I became sexually active. Just because sex itself was so fascinating to me that I wanted to experience it all. But after having my butt grabbed one day by a lady who was clearly interested (I was in a lesbian bar that a couple of my guy friends took me to) I realized that I wasn't really interested in going there. I have to admit to kissing other women before a couple of times and I found that interesting (as did the guys on the dance floor watcihng lol). But I don't think I will ever actually sleep with another woman. I just like men way too much !!!
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Registered: 06-05-2007
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 9:32pm
Thanks for the welcome and the response! Clears things up a bit more =)