Girl on Girl,?? I'm straight

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Girl on Girl,?? I'm straight
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Tue, 12-19-2006 - 1:23pm
Please be honest... I am a very straight woman, who is in love with a great man, and I do mean MAN. I get so turned on by watching adult movies of people having oral sex, and it can be girl on girl, which really does it for me. To actually see their tongue touch another womans clitrous does it for me.. Am I odd? Do other woman get aroused this way too??
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Tue, 12-19-2006 - 1:32pm
No, you're just relating. We can ALL relate to sexual pleasure. So, regardless of whether you're gay or straight, you can relate to the pleasure a TONGUE can bring.
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Tue, 12-19-2006 - 5:04pm

Nope, you're not odd at all and it doesn't mean anything.


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Wed, 12-20-2006 - 5:04am
My DW enjoys girl on girl, threesomes, forursome, orgy, etc DVD'S. We watch together. She cums often when a girl on girl scene is on.
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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 2:59pm

About the only type of porn that I enjoy is one with scenes of women receiving oral sex, whether it be from a man or a woman. My famorite is one called Beautiful Nasty, where two female porn stars are having what seems like a "real" moment...very sweet, not like "acting" where they're all moaning and shoving things places just for effect. You can tell that the one girl is having an actual orgasm.

I'm definately straight, although if the situation arose, I would be intrigued about doing this with another girl, just to see what it was like to give oral to a female. But it would just be an experimentation thing, in no way do I want it to be a regular thing or want a relationship with a girl.

I think it's more like just seeing things that push the envelope further than you've gone before, just to see how much it makes you feel pleasure...nothing wrong with that at all...

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Sun, 12-31-2006 - 5:53pm
It's normal to be turned on by girl on girl. I'm bi, but I get REALLY turned on at girl/girl and man/man
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Tue, 01-16-2007 - 11:34am

Hi Jacy.

My opinion on this is that you are a perfectly normal, healthy woman. As I see it, you can appreciate the sexiness of men or women and that's more than most can do.

Here's a short explaination about how I figured it out for myself.

I too always considered myself straight but had this curiosity. I never really told anyone until I met my best friend a few years ago. Well, about 18 months ago we went on an overnight girls getaway and after a couple drinks we ended up kissing and it lead to me going down on her. Of course she reciprocated. It was GREAT! It's an entirely different experience than being with a man, which I absolutely love too.

Can you talk to your "Man" about this? Or a girl friend? You never know, she may be feeling the same way.

I hope this helps. Good luck! Stay true to yourself.

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Tue, 01-16-2007 - 11:59am
That sounds great, just like you curious. I would like to know about your friendship, was every thing the same afterwards, or was there an awkardness?? Do you still consider your self straight? I know I would never feel comfortable putting my head on a girls shoulder or holding her hand, but seeing girl on girl sex on tv does do it for me. That is the big sign to me that I'm straight, can't imagine getting emotional with another girl, just wouldn't feel right inside of me, but SEX is just that; SEX...
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Tue, 01-16-2007 - 3:07pm

Jacy,

We are still best, best friends. That was not the only time it happened. Like you I cannot see myself in a romantic relationship with a woman, but sex with one is an entirely different thing (not sure how much I can say on here so we'll leave it at that). I'm married and in love with my husband so I guess I'd consider myself straight.

She and I were always very affectionate before ever having a sexual encounter, and we still are today. We hug and kiss on the cheek each time we see each other, we rub each other's backs and paint each others toenails, babysit each others kids, go to the mall or a movie, have dinner with our hubbys, etc. The only thing is that we don't talk about "our" sex in front of my husband because he has no idea. He's a bit more conservative than me, actually he's a lot more conservative than me. Her hubby knows. (and has been involved a few times.) It's all in fun, but this isn't something you can maintain with just anyone. Everyone involved has to be exactly on the same page.

Actually I'm struggling right now with my husband not being into it. I feel guilty, as if I'm cheating, but then I feel like he cannot give me what she can. Then I feel like that's lame and I should be only sleeping with him. I don't know. I guess it comes down to a moral issue with me. I just wish that he was willing to give it a try, even just a little playing around to test the water.

Anyway, I hope this helps. Feel free to keep in touch.