I actually find myself a little self-conscious when on top (if new in the relationship); wondering, 'is he enjoying up here?' :) But I agree, just bouncing up and down isn't enough... maybe for a little bit, but 'grinding' front/back, differing speeds is good. Also moving your hips in a circle - that way the man can feel a lot of different angles inside you. Heard they love that. :)
*Have you ever tried being on top, but facing his feet? It's technically called the Reverse Cowgirl position... and my man LOVES it. You can either be lying back, with your hands propping you up (by his shoulders), or leaning forward, with your hands on his legs to stabilize you. That one's fun. Ya just can't look eachother in the eye. But try it out! Good luck!
I actually find myself a little self-conscious when on top (if new in the relationship); wondering, 'is he enjoying up here?' :) But I agree, just bouncing up and down isn't enough... maybe for a little bit, but 'grinding' front/back, differing speeds is good. Also moving your hips in a circle - that way the man can feel a lot of different angles inside you. Heard they love that. :)
*Have you ever tried being on top, but facing his feet? It's technically called the Reverse Cowgirl position... and my man LOVES it. You can either be lying back, with your hands propping you up (by his shoulders), or leaning forward, with your hands on his legs to stabilize you. That one's fun. Ya just can't look eachother in the eye. But try it out! Good luck!