Girlfriend cums a river..
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Girlfriend cums a river..
| Mon, 06-04-2007 - 7:34pm |
I have been dating my current lover for about 3 months. When we first started having sex she would not reach orgasim. After a few encounters I found she resonds well to rough sex. When I thrust hard and fast (or in mens terms.."pound on her")she will have an orgasim but she then cums a tremendous amount of female ejaculate. Its so much that the bed gets soaked to the point where we can't sleep on it and she only has one bed at her place! I have thought about towels but it seems with the amount of female cum she produces Im not sure if this will help. Has anyone else had this issue and if so how did you handle it so you could still use the bed after! Also this prohibits sex in the car or at her parents house! Bummer!

Have you tried different positions? I find that I don't FE in every position. Try doggy position and see if that make a difference.
The towels work great -- if you remember to put them beneath you first. Otherwise, if you use a good mattress pad, the actual bed won't get soaked. You can change the layers to sleep if need be. Often, we use a towel to soak up most of the wetness, and then put another one over the spot before settling in to sleep. If you don't like the feel of the towel against your skin, an extra pillow case on top of the towel works great.
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I have not yet mastered FE :-(
Have you read the information on the site the-clitoris.com? I know it is probably covered there. I finally picked up the best tip from a book. You have to push outward when you have the feeling (really a lot like you need to urinate). Word of warning though, once you start, you'll never stop!
Typically, when I have a clitoral orgasm, my muscles pull up tight in an inward way (like exercising PC muscles). To FE, you have to push outward as if you are letting go. At least that's how I started. I only FE in certain positions and with g-spot stimulation; however, I don't have to consciously push outward anymore. I think that's just to learn and realize the difference. Your natural instinct is to fight it because it does feel like you are going to urinate. Once you get over the mental hurdle and realize it's not urine, watch out because the river does flow ;-)
Then there is the practice ... fun, fun, fun!
my partner in the siggy exchange
I have been to that website, but haven't read much on it yet.
Towels will work. Throw a couple of beach towels on the bed and they will soak up the worst of it. Your girlfriend is a lucky girl IMO!
I have been through a lot of lovers over the years (well jeez .. I mean I was married four times lol) and it seems like I must be a G-spot girl myself because I love the ones that have the up angle thing going on with their penis and I do the FE thing and love it. They are the best orgasms I have ever experienced. Unfortunately it only really happened consistently with two of the men I was with. Fortunately the one I am with now and really get along with, is one of the two :> (I could almost go with marriage number 5 with this man if things keep going like they are LOL.) But his penis lays almost straight up against his belly with a slight inward curve when it is erect so it definitely hits my G-spot just right in every position but doggy style.
For those of you that want to experience this, at certain angles (try it with him on top, and your legs straight up against his chest, your feet will be to either side of his head or against his chest so you are slightly tilted, you have to be a little flexible for this though) it will happen a lot more often. Like the cl said ... if you don't want it to happen, try to find an angle where there isn't G-Spot stimulation. Doggy-style usually won't provide a lot and may work better if you are short the towels.