giving a bj to an uncut guy

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Registered: 07-13-2004
giving a bj to an uncut guy
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Wed, 07-14-2004 - 12:27pm
I hope someone can give me some help, I recently started seeing a man who is not circumsized. I have never given oral sex to someone who's not cut and I am a little anxious about it. Am I supposed to pull the skin back, is that going to hurt him? Sorry to be so naive, it's just hasn't been an experience I've had yet!

Thanks!

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 12:36pm
Has he ever had a BJ? He can tell you any precautions you may need to take. I have never been with an uncirced guy though. I do believe you are not supposed to retract the skin yourself, I think it retracts on it's own when he becomes erect.

Leticia

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 12:44pm
Let your guy guide you but the foreskin should pull back when erect anyway, at least partially. He knows his penis better than anyone, so follow his lead.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 12:59pm
it will retract on it's own when he is aroused. it's really not much different. the head may be more sensitive on uncircumcized guys. so i would say start out with a little less pressure on the head and build up from there depending on his response. but circumsized or not, men are different, so as always communicate for optimal pleasure.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 4:21pm
As the others said, when an uncircumcised man gets an erection, the extra skin is pretty much "pulled back" on it's own. It's really not any different than a circumcised man.
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 4:46pm
Yes, gently pull the skin back. It's really easy and to me, when the skin is pulled back, it's no different than giving any other BJ. I've been with 2 uncircumsized men in my life and it was no big deal. Still felt great!
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 4:48pm
It's not completely pulled back, no. There is always a little to work with there. But, yes, once pulled back - there is no diff.
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Registered: 06-14-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 4:52pm
I find that there is a difference giving oral to an uncircumsized man vs. circumsized. I find that the head of the penis on an uncircumsized man is smoother and more enjoyable to suck. My SO is uncircumsized and I find it much more enjoyable giving him bj's then when I've given them to circumsized men. Also, you can retract the foreskin when the penis is soft. On an adult male there should be no problem with this, in fact they have to retract it in the shower for cleaning. You will want to make sure your man cleans himself well before you start the act, because you don't want to taste the smegma that builds up under the foreskin.

Good Luck,

Jenn

"Many Persons have a wrong idea what constitutes true happiness.  It is not attained through self-gratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose."  Helen Keller
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 5:00pm
Different strokes, he-he. No pun intended. I like my circumsized man, thank you, but did want to share my experiences with two others. Visually, I really like seeing a circumsized erect penis - just standing out and at attention for me. It's beautiful! If R wasn't circumsized, it wouldn't matter really - but since we're on the subject and preferences - I'll take em circumsized, please.