Giving Head.

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Registered: 08-16-2007
Giving Head.
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Thu, 08-16-2007 - 1:27am

This Feels Wierd, But Everyone Else Is Doing It.. So Here We Go!

I Just Gave Head For The First Time, And I Hate It. He Loves It Though. So I Need To Learn How To Get Over Hating It. I Have SUPER Good Gag Reflexes. My Dentist Said Better Than Anyone He Has Ever Seen. Well That Makes It Hard When He Is In My Mouth Because It's Not In Far At All And I Feel Like I'm Going To Gag. Does Anyone Else Have This Problem? Or Does Anyone Know A Way To Get Over That?

Thanks To Anyone Who Can Help!! <33 Julie

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 9:20am

Welcome to the board Julie.

I think if you hate what you're doing you'll have a higher chance of gagging anyway. The first thing I would do is try to figure out why you hate giving oral, or what you hate about it. If you think it's gross, why? How can you change that mindset. If you don't like his taste, then there are things he can change in his diet that will also change that. If you're afraid he'll cum in your mouth, then that's something you can clear up with him from the beginning.

Most of his sensitivity is in the head. You can use your hand to do 99% of the work, and concentrate your oral techniques solely on the head of his penis if that helps you get started in a way that overcomes your hangups about it. Also, the visual is a huge deal for him. Try positioning yourself so he can watch what you are doing -- this will likely result in less time for you actually performing oral.

Another thing that can make it more pleasant for many women is using flavored condoms or flavored lube. If you pick a flavor you enjoy, that's a positive for you too.

Here are a couple of articles that might give you more hints as well:

Oral Sex: A Step-by-Step Guide
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexoral/0,,traceycox_88pqgx19,00.html

Giving oral pleasure: How to do and enjoy it
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexoral/0,,drpatti_8qxx,00.html

Keep us posted and let us know how things go.



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Registered: 11-14-2006
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 10:11am
Try putting his penis between your teeth and cheek. It won't be quite as good
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Registered: 08-15-2007
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 5:00pm
Use ice or Lotion that taste, maybe concentrate on him and his reaction more than how you dont like what your doing? Like pleaseing him not what your doing. Congrads on the Mouth virginity gone

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 9:03pm
Why do so many woman think Oral sex is all about the act of taking it in?
Its the fore and after play that counts too!
Men pleasure from all sorts of sensations from licking, sucking, teasing, and kissing.... There is no need to insert it all the way so that you gag! Most of the pleasure comes from stimulating the nerve endings on the head of the penis...Use your hands and tongue on the shaft and insert only as much as you are comfortable with....
I personally believe that men are turned on by the fact that you are happy and willing to pleasure them orally, that in itself is a turn on.... Unless he expects a porn star act...then he will, im sure, be more satisfied and pleased by seeing you do things that make you comfortable as well...not acts that will inhibit you because you feel you are going to gag.
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