Giving up on sex
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Giving up on sex
| Tue, 06-29-2004 - 1:29pm |
I just turned 18 years old and for almost 2 years now I have had almost no sex drive. I switched my birthcontrol to a lower dose of hormones so I don't think it is that. I used to have a good sex drive and since moving in with my boyfriend we have sex maybe twice a week if that. I don't do oral because I hate the taste and he doesn't do it because I don't recipricate/ don't want it, so we don't do much for foreplay. I also haven't been able to orgasm very often the last year 1/2 I used to fake it but now I just let it happen if it happens and if not oh well. I don't talk about this with my boyfriend because he feels that orgasms are not the main part of sex. I talked to him about it a while back- not telling him I can't orgasm but just talking about how sometimes if we go for long I don't feel anything and he said - " besides, that isn't what sex is about" so there is no way I am going to talk to him about it. I try to get into it and lately have been having sex more- not because I want to just to try to like it again but I mostly want it over with. I really just want to stop having sex altogether with, is this weird?

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