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| Wed, 09-08-2004 - 1:23pm |
so, i've been friends w/this guy for 1 1/2 we've had sex a handful of times. the first time we had sex, it was awesome!!! after that, things went down hill. his penus is smaller than what i'm used to, so i have a hard time riding it. i feel so awkward when i'm on top of him, b/c i dont want to embarass him and tell him that his penus is to small for me to ride, but in the same breath i want to be satisfied.
i want a relationship he doesnt. he's distanced himself from me for the past month or so citing that we want two different things and since he doesn't want what i want he has to keep his distance (admirable of him wouldn't u say)! so that's our dilemma-he emailed me last week and said that he wanted to start having sex w/me again. not just regular sex, but oral sex. now i'm a strong believer in pleasing my mate, but i think that both parties should be in a committed relationship rather than casually sleeping w/ea. other.
i want a relationship he doesnt. he's distanced himself from me for the past month or so citing that we want two different things and since he doesn't want what i want he has to keep his distance (admirable of him wouldn't u say)! so that's our dilemma-he emailed me last week and said that he wanted to start having sex w/me again. not just regular sex, but oral sex. now i'm a strong believer in pleasing my mate, but i think that both parties should be in a committed relationship rather than casually sleeping w/ea. other.
we've never been on a real date sort of speak. we've hung out a couple of times, other people have mistaken us as a couple.
i love the foundation we've established, but i want to be sexually wild and explore differnt sexual arenas. i'm just not sure how to go about it...
does anyone have any advice on my situation? should i continue to have sex w/him? if so, how can i obtain satisfaction w/his small penus? Also, should i go there and have oral sex with him?

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Odd. Do you think he has a sense of your dissatisfaction? And why would he want to date a woman who is dissatisfied with him?
does anyone have any suggestions on a couple of positions we could try?
Also, how could sex the first time be "awesome", and then all of a sudden he can't satisfy you. Did his penis shrink?
He doesn't want what you want, he doesn't HAVE what you want...so what would be the point?
I don't think that you've established any foundations. You might have started building them but they have since crumbled into dust when he said that he didn't want to get involved.
Advice on the situation? It's clear to me. Forget about this guy and go find someone-else that WANTS a relationship with you and probably has bigger penis too.
Greeteabag: I think that the first time she had sex with the guy the emotional anticipation probably made it 'awesome'.