God did unfair with men

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God did unfair with men
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 1:55am

Some times i think god did unfair with men as women can have sex any number of times consecutively and man need some interval between each sex.Some may need long interval some short.

I wanted to know man what is maximum number of times they had sex in a day or in some time span.And from women i wanted to know what is maximum number of times they had sex with same man in a day or in some time span...

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 2:09am

It might be unfair, but you can't change it. Best to stop worrying and enjoy what you can! LOL!

If I recall correctly, the most times I've orgasmed in a 24 hour period was 7 times when I was about 19 or 20yo. The g/f and I were housesitting and had a whole house to ourselves for a weekend. Usually I'll just orgasm the once both then and now. Sometimes we'll go for round two shortly afterwards.

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 2:58am

give me a break! if you didn't orgasm each time you had sex you too could have sex many times a day. my point is if you compare how often men and women can orgasm it is more equal than comparing how many times men and women can have sex. this is because your conception of sex is likely male-orgasm focused. it is true that some women are multi-orgasmic, but from what i understand this is the minority. speaking for myself, if i have an orgasm, sex once a day is sufficient. occasionally, when i am extra frisky maybe twice. however, if i have sex and don't come i'll be craving more sex. i assume a guy that had sex and didn't come would be in the same situation.

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 6:41am
When i said having sex,i mean having it full(havng orgasm).You may be right that man can have number of sex session when he dont orgasm each time.I dont think man can have sex many times in a day when he have orgasm each time.
I had sex maximum of 4 times in a day,each time had orgasm.But in first session orgasm was more intensive and I was rock hard.In Next sessions intensity was decreasing.In 4th i could hardly ejaculate.But i enjoyed whole sensession.My penis was paining bit after that.
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 8:35am

I think (it was years ago) Dh and I hit 4 or 5 times in a day (24 hour period).


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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 8:57am

It's not the quantity, it's the QUALITY. Also, many men can control their climaxes, and can enjoy every minute of sex, as can women, no matter how many orgasms they have (or don't have)!

When God was creating man and woman, when he was about finished, he had a couple of parts left over. He asked Adam and Eve which one would like this thing that would enable them to urinate standing up. Adam said "I DO, I DO!" He got it, and he had a great time seeing how far it would go, writing his name in the sand, etc. Then God said to Eve, well, I guess you get this last part, and he gave her the brain!

God knew exactly what he was doing!

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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 9:47am
I don't know how other women do it but if I try to have sex more then once a day, even with tons of lubrication, I get sore. Even if I'm doing it once a day too many days in a row, I can get sore. Plus I like the anticipation to build up so I like waiting at least a few days inbetween sex because then the satisfaction is so much sweeter. Just because we physically CAN orgasm as many times as we want in a row doesn't mean we want to or will do so.
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 10:12am

OMG, Dakine and I are sharing a brain it seems!!!

MY version of the same joke is: God was almost finished with his creations of Adam and Eve, he had a few capabilities left to give so He asked: "Who wants to pee standing up?" Adam pushed Eve out of the way and said "I do, I do!" So, God said, "Okay, Adam, I guess that leaves the multiple orgasms for Eve." LOL!

I think God wisely gave each sex what they needed to enjoy sex and preserve the species. It's up to US to learn to use those qualities to the fullest advantage for ourselves and our partner.

My DH and I used to have sex 5-6 times in a 12 hr. period, when we were first married and had no children, but now it's more like 3 at the most.




Edited 4/19/2006 10:14 am ET by katmandoo2001
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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 2:40am

Tish,It seems like ur DH really energetic at 50.What does he eat or u must be so hot ;-).It is really nice to get opinion from experienced couple about sex,life.

when you said "men don't have to go through menopause and all the hot flashes, night sweats, hormone changes that can really mess with your body and mind and all the other *fun stuff* that goes along with it."

I can understand Monthly Periods is irritating.Giving birth is biggest responsibility given to women by nature.Do women think that is unfair or messy?
Is "menopause" so messy?What u go through in menopause period? what is that *fun stuff*?

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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 4:51am

I was going to add something about "peeing standing up" but Dakine beat me to it.

Nope, I don't feel sorry for men.

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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 8:19am

Hopefully Tish will answer your questions, but I'm going to answer them too. YOu must be very young, because you imagine that being sexually active at 50 is some kind of miracle. It's not! First, 50 isn't old. Second, I'm not saying that Tish is NOT "hot", but in a happy and loving relationship, "hot" doesn't come into it. That is to say that if a man loves his woman, she will BE "hot" to him forever. What her husband or any other man EATS has nothing to do with being sexually active, beyond eating what is healthy, and BEING healthy. My partner is 71 and he's still sexually active. Not 3 or 4 times a day......that's for teen agers.....but on a regular basis. And, as you get older, you appreciate quality over quantity.

Most women don't think that childbirth is either unfair OR messy. Messy isn't a word that anyone would use about childbirth. Sometimes women JOKINGLY will say that men could never survive giving birth to a child, because it's PAINFUL.....but it's a wonderful pain that produces a new life. It's also sometimes difficult to carry around 20 or 30 pounds in your belly, along with enlarging and sore breasts for several months.

Monthly menstrual periods can be messy, but that's not a problem for most women. Many women have OTHER symptoms....bloating, cramps, PMS, depressions...... I wonder how many men would enjoy bleeding from their penis for 4 or 5 days every month, along with all the other side effects?

Menopause is as she said.....Hot flashes (meaning becoming red as a beet and feeling like you're on fire at the most inopportune times, sometimes 10 or 20 times a day, and that can go on for several YEARS! Night sweats, exactly what it sounds like....waking up in the middle of the night and being soaking wet all over your body. That also can last for years. Hormone changes can cause weight gains, mood swings, lack of sexual lubrication, and lots of other "fun things" (that is SARCASM) which can be different for every woman. Some women get Acne. Some women get depressed. Some lose their interest in sex. And some women have virtually no symptoms other than the end of the monthly periods, and no longer ovulating, so they can no longer get pregnant.

Some doctors believe than men also go thru a form of menopause. Men can also develop prostate problems when they get older. Their hormones can fluctuate as they get older, but with modern medicine, that can be fixed for both men and women. The main thing needed for both sexes to remain sexually active is good health, and a good loving relationship and mental attitude. We don't always have control over our health, but we can control our relationships and our attitude.

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