God did unfair with men

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God did unfair with men
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Wed, 04-19-2006 - 1:55am

Some times i think god did unfair with men as women can have sex any number of times consecutively and man need some interval between each sex.Some may need long interval some short.

I wanted to know man what is maximum number of times they had sex in a day or in some time span.And from women i wanted to know what is maximum number of times they had sex with same man in a day or in some time span...

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Registered: 02-26-2001
Tue, 04-25-2006 - 2:13pm
In other words, he thinks that it would be nice if women actually wanted to have sex, instead of it being something that they're willing to do if they can't get out of it?
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 2:19pm
I remember guys like that when I was 18, and it's a pretty good description of some of my son's friends. So, do you think that 18 year-old girls have a better attitude toward boys, sex, and relationships? The reason I ask is that my younger son is 18, and some of the things he's told me that girls have told him about sex are pretty odd. One girl he asked to the prom turned him down because she planned on having sex the night of the prom and he was too good a friend for her to have sex with. She said that it would be 'weird' to have sex with someone she knew so well.
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 2:24pm
rice, I think there are lots of different views of sex by both young men and women..Id say as a whole the young women have a better grasp than do the boys, but then there are the BJ parties I hear about..lol.. So who knows!
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 4:58pm
I think what the others have been saying is that boys tend to treat girls like "trash" whereas most girls don't(not saying that they don't treat boys badly, but they mostly just nag and whine and want attention, not because they do not like him). Even if the boy is getting "sex" he still doesn't like her or see her as a person, whereas most girls do. Even if the girl does succeed in having sex with her date for the prom, she will most likely see it as a "date" and "having sex" and not lose respect for him or feel any contempt towards him--but a boy may. That's the general difference between boys and girls, I think--and some boys never grow out of it. In fact, I think that for many of them, casual sex is a detriment to them as they seem to become more resentful of women over time(they're all whores to them). Anyhow, I think that's the difference.
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 5:38pm
Actually, I think that most guys that age aren't like that, at least it seemed that way when I was young. It's just that the guys who don't respect the girls as individuals are the ones who also seem to have all the girls. So, I can see why it seems to the girls that most guys are like that, since they don't seem to even notice the guys who don't act that way. Although there are definitely a lot of guys that age who don't have a positive attitude toward women, I think that it's women's perception that there are more than there actually are.
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 5:45pm

Maybe. But if he chose a woman who was wildly attracted to HIM in the first place, and not just his money & fame, then he probably wouldn't have to beg for it.

Maybe he's choosing the wrong women for the wrong reasons. Maybe he needs to be more realistic and pick accordingly.

Let's face it, a great sense of humor CAN make up for a lack in the looks dept. for most women, but a bitter, negative, cynical attitude sure won't have them knocking the doors down!

My DH has NEVER had to beg for sex. On the contrary, it was me who wanted sex more often when we were younger. We're pretty much on the same page now.




Edited 4/25/2006 5:55 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 6:10pm

...and the reason that those girls are with those guys is because they are oblivious to what the guys think of them; because they "don't" think that way about them, it's probably the furthest thing from their minds. It's that whole "You can only trust others as far as you trust yourself" adage.

I guess I wasn't thinking about the guys who blatantly treat them like trash(so it's obvious), but more of those who "think" it. They may even treat her "right" on the surface, but it's what lurks beneath, that is most damaging.




Edited 4/25/2006 6:38 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Tue, 04-25-2006 - 8:30pm
As my dear old Dad used to say..."A man who can't appreciate a woman as a person FIRST, isn't a man to marry." And I've always used that to guide me in picking partners with very good results.
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Wed, 04-26-2006 - 11:03am
Your father sounds like a wise man. I learned the same thing from my father, especially how he treated my mother. She was his queen and he adored her.
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Wed, 04-26-2006 - 2:09pm

Same with my Dad. He always called my mother his "little treasure" because she was so petite next to him. What man or woman doesn't want to be thought of in that way?

We spend our entire lives with one another and only a small percentage of it in bed. We HAVE to like & respect one another as people or our marriages won't be successful.

Unfortunately, too many marriages now are built on sex appeal, not friendship and true respect, hence the 60% divorce rate.




Edited 4/26/2006 2:11 pm ET by katmandoo2001

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