Going Braless
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Going Braless
| Mon, 10-23-2006 - 4:49pm |
It appears sunbathing topless is not that popular but I was wondering what women think about going braless in public. I think it is really sexy to see a woman out in public without a bra.(I'm not talking about anything see through, just shapely) I enjoy seeing the extra jiggle and the occassional poking out. The women I see out don't seem to think it's a big deal, but it sure makes my day.
So ladies, do you enjoy going braless?
What do you think when you see another woman braless in public?
Does going braless turn you or your husband on?
I'll be interested in your replies.

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Maybe you don't understand her feelings because you don't have breasts and you aren't a woman! I think that's your problem. You're a man looking at this from a male viewpoint.
This is all very subjective though. Your difficulty comes because you are projecting your own feelings onto everyone else. Something that is "so sexy" to YOU, may not be to another.
I personally greatly enjoy being topless or naked with my DH and love that he loves seeing my body. But what does that have to do with being topless in front of other men in public?
My DH has no desire to share me with anyone else and visa versa. My body is for his eyes only and he loves knowing that.
I agree with Kat. I find it extremely "sexy" when a man feels the exact opposite of how you do.....I like for him to want me all for himself. I want for him to "not" have the desire to share me, and to get a little jealous of other men "coveting" me.
Actually, is this some sort of conflict with many men? On the one hand you hear "She's such an attention whore." and the sorts....and the on the other.... "I wish she would bare all for men to see." Something, I could never quite put my finger on.... ;-)
It would definitely turn me off for a man to "push" me towards other men...the last thing I'd want is for him to even think about sharing me.
Lastly, I find "evil" and "naughtiness" lies more within the "unexposed" rather than the "fully" exposed. You do not have to reveal all to exude the "vixen" in you. There's something sexy about not "trying" to be sexy...ya know? At least that's what I've been told is "sexy" about me. Sexiness is not found in the amount of clothing you wear (or do not wear), it's found in the way you walk, hold yourself, speak, your mannerisms and so much more. That's the fallacy that so many women falsely "believe." Just look at the Britney Spearses of the world. There's "classy" sexy and then there's "trashy" sexy....
I'm happy, that my man doesn't find happiness in making other men happy. ;-)
Edited 11/3/2006 6:19 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
>>I really am surprised more women don't enjoy doing something that is soooo sexy.<<
I have to agree with Kat when she said that sexiness is subjective.
I go braless whenever I can get away with it. Why? Because it's comfortable. However, I don't feel the slightest bit sexy when I do so. Rather, I feel like a comfortable slob. You know how you feel when you pull on your soft, old, daggy jeans and sweater? That's how I feel when braless.
If I want to be 'sexy', I'll wear a push-up bra and a low cut top. It's quite the opposite of your assumption.
In answer to your other questions:
I don't care one way or another if another woman is braless and my husband doesn't find me going braless particularly sexy.
>>i use my bra as a pocket to carry my change purse and cell phone.<<
Awwwww....you've just reminded me of my darling old nana. She carried all sorts of things in her bra.
"So ladies, do you enjoy going braless?"
Haven't tried it. I usually don't wear very clinging shirts, anyway.
"What do you think when you see another woman braless in public?"
"That's gotta hurt."
"Does going braless turn you or your husband on?"
I don't know... yet.
Very well put. It always fascinates me when someone (man or woman) assumes that all other viewpoints must be like theirs, to the point where they make comments like "I'm very surprised more women don't enjoy doing something that is soooo sexy."
Assuming things, especially about other peoples' thoughts and feelings, can be a risky proposition at best, disasterous at worst. But I think most of us know that.
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