Going down after ejaculation

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Going down after ejaculation
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Wed, 05-04-2005 - 4:27pm

First, I have a question for you men. Last Sunday, after having sex Saturday night and dancing at a club until the wee hours, my BF asked to go down on me. I felt uncomfortable with this because I was worried about how "clean" I was. Do you like going down on your wife/GF/etc. after you have ejaculated inside her? Granted, we keep "cleanup" materials by the bed, but it's impossible for me to get it all, if you know what I mean. And, would you find your ejaculate mixed with sweat from a night of dancing to be erotic or sexy or would you be turned off by this?

Secondly, for you ladies. I didn't take a shower after my BF and I had sex, so his "scent" was still on me (or, rather, inside me) when we were at the club. I found this to be an incredible turn-on, so much so that I would seek him out each time I came out of the bathroom to kiss him and tell him how hot he is. Anybody else like to keep your man "inside" you this way? I will also do this some days at work. If I have showered the night before and then we have sex, I will go to work without having a second shower so that I can detect his scent on me during the day.

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Wed, 05-04-2005 - 5:07pm

Your guy knew what he'd encounter "going down" so why worry about it? Most of it will be his contribution anyway. LOL! Other guys are more finicky about such things and jump in the shower (and expect YOU to) almost as soon as they've ejaculated!

Unless your guy is a clean freak, don't worry about HIS experience down south and focus on your own...after all, isn't that the point? LOL!

However, semen can cause the PH level to change in the vagina, so it CAN get a bit rank if left for too long, so personally, I like to bathe within a few hours.....particularly if I'm going to be out and about.

But what smells strong to one, will be aromatic heaven to another, so if it floats your particular boat, delay that shower indefinitely!




Edited 5/4/2005 6:46 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 05-04-2005 - 7:43pm
Dh has gone down on me after ejaculating inside many times, it's never bothered him.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 12:17am

Who cares what other men like? Evidently your b/f likes it, or he wouldn't go there! Haven't you ever given him oral after he's been in you? What's the difference?

That "scent" before or after sex, contains pheremones, a natural sexual attractant. If you like it, enjoy it.

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Thu, 05-05-2005 - 12:29am

Answering the question to the guys; the idea of it immediately after ejeculation is a big turn-on for me but I rarely actually do it simply because I am usually too exhausted and satisfied to do it after my orgasm. If your guy likes the idea and likes doing it, then enjoy it. There's certainly no right or wrong answer for this situation.

As for it being after a night of dancing, I would personally prefer that my partner shower or freshen up before I went down on her, but as I said, that's just my preference. Other people prefer other things. I know that there are plenty of guys that love the strong musky aroma of an aroused woman - it's loaded with all those sexual pherenomes and the such like.

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Thu, 05-05-2005 - 2:49pm
With the right man there is something very satisfying about going down after ejaculation. For me it heightens the intimacy. Elaine
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Thu, 05-05-2005 - 6:07pm

If its his face down there, and it doesn't bother him, why would it bother you?


My first wife used to insist she "smelled bad" when I would try to give her oral sex. No amount of my insistence that she smelled just fine to me (for that mater, a certain amount of scent is a huge turn on) would allow her to get comfortable with the idea, so she rarely got oral sex.


Pity.

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Sat, 05-07-2005 - 1:41pm

I go down on my wife a couple of time while we are having sex.
I like how wet she gets and she loves it.

She enjoys it when I cum in her, and once in awhile she gives me head after I pull out.
One time last month, after finishing, she came back up to me, gave me a big kiss, smiled, and asked me to go down on her.
I did go down and licked around her hole, tickled her clit, but didn't lick inside her.

Is this a common pratice, and if so, how many people have tried this?
Is there a term for this pratice?

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sat, 05-07-2005 - 5:11pm

The term for going down on a woman after you ejaculate in her?

Bizzarly enough it's called: Eating Creampie.

Happier how you know. :)

How common. I'd say uncommon compared to most other sexual practices compared to Oral or Anal sex. Not terribly so. And in many cases it seems to be vastly preferred by the woman. As a nice after-coitus cool-off. I have been thinking of trying it with my girlfriend sometime.

CEH

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Sun, 05-08-2005 - 8:59am
My dw and I were going out for the evening a while back and she was taking a shower. Her clothes were laid out on the bed and I was about half dressed. She had been teasing me about what we were going to do when we got back home later that night and I had a sudden idea. I took her panties and held them in front of my stiff penis and stroked myself until I came on the crotch portion of them. I laid them back on the bed and waited until she came into the room to start dressing. When she picked up her panties to put them on she noticed that they were very damp. She asked me what I had done to them and I told her what I had done and to put them on anyway. I told her that she would be greatly rewarded for wearing them when we got home later. She pulled them on and made a face but left them on.
As the night progressed, she told me she could smell my cum when she went to the bathroom and pulled her panties down to pee. I think she was really getting turned on by the idea of what was soaking her p*ssy. She asked me if I could smell the scent of her several times and brought her hand to my face after returning from the bathroom to see if I could. I kept telling her that I was going eat her like a queen when we got home and finally she said lets go home NOW.
When we got home, she took me to the bedroom, pulled off her panties, pulled up her dress and laid down on her back on the bed and told me to do what I had told her I was going to do when we got home. She was so wet and her scent was so great that I didn't lick and suck her for less than a minute before she came. Her hands kept my head between her legs for several orgasms before she let me go. We then had sex and it was great. Her panties were a lot wetter than when we left for the evening so I know it really turned her on and I absolutely loved it too.
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Mon, 05-09-2005 - 10:57am
That is a great story and gives me a new idea.

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