Going down on a girl

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Registered: 02-13-2004
Going down on a girl
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Sun, 07-17-2005 - 11:39pm

i have a question for both men and women...

Men: when you go down on a girl, what kind of reaction do you like to see from her?

Women: when a guy goes down on you, how do you normally respond during it?

i'm just curious

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 1:51am

Uh......I respond WELL. I love cunnilingus and my DH loves giving it so he always gets a enthusiastic and appreciative response from me!

And I'm quite sure that's what most men would want. Why do you ask?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 6:46am
Let's just say

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Registered: 07-05-2005
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 12:30pm

Man's response: As typical with most other activities during sex, the more moaning (& other vocal or physical responses) the better. She doesn't have to scream - although, that would be perfectly fine if she does; I like to know she enjoys it, because I then enjoy it more. I'm one of those "pleased by making her pleased" guys, so I REALLY don't appreciate faking, whether oral or otherwise.

Ladies, let your men know how to do it right.

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Registered: 02-16-2005
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 2:24pm

Women: when a guy goes down on you, how do you normally respond during it?

well, my man gives the best oral sex EVER!!! OMG, one time he started and I was laying on the couch and by the time he was done I had squirmed my way to the floor, across the living room, and half way into the kitchen. He found that to be quite amusing. I usually moan a lot and if Im really enjoying it I tend to pull his hair, scartch, spank him, and kick (lightly) him with my feet on his bottom. He gets turned on when Im agressive. Thanks now I wanna go see him. :)

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 5:37pm

I can't say that there is any thing specific that I'm expecting. I want to know that she's enjoying it so I guess some moans or a reaction to that effect would be good. Other than that it's up to the individual woman to do what she feels like. If she's the type that will wriggle around the place and bounce up and down on the mattress so much that I have to hold her down, well, that's good. If she's the type that will just lie there gently moaning, with her eyes closed, biting her lip, hips twitching slightly, then that also is good. If she wants to push herself up on an elbow and watch me and touch herself at the same time while telling me what feels best where, then that also is good.

It's got to be genuine though. I hate people faking it. And if it's not that great, for God's sake tell me and we can try something different or maybe try to work out what DOES feel good.

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Registered: 08-12-2004
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 7:03pm
Male here, I agree with pounce3
Enthusiasm...moaning, grabbing my hair/head, telling me what feels good, where, faster, harder. If I'm doing everything right then an "ooohhh yes" or something is MUCH appreciated.
I think I'm pretty good at it, but the more I "know" I'm doing good, the better I'll do, and everybody wins;p
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Registered: 02-26-2001
Mon, 07-18-2005 - 10:32pm
I can tell you from experience that getting no reaction at all, despite his best efforts, can be very de-motivating for a guy and will, eventually, make him not want to do it any more. As the others said, faking is not good, but something, suggestions, constructive criticism, ANYTHING, is better than no reaction at all.
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Tue, 07-19-2005 - 2:00am
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Beware head, because my hips thrust quite a bit; then again, one guy loved the way I tried to burrow my head into the headboard (and he was the best I've had ever; I figure his head has been hurt a few times because the first thing he positions is his arms/hands onto hip bones - smart man!). Of course, I'm vocal too!
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Registered: 03-14-2006
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 12:09pm
DH knows I love it! I'm quite vocal about it through my loud moaning.
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Registered: 03-21-2006
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:17am
I know this is an old post, but I have to say that once I feel the tongue down there I am extremely vocal, I think I moan gently, getting louder the more he eats me but then it makes me scream loudly when I climax.
I just love it!! (DH loves my responses too!)

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