going down there

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Registered: 01-15-2005
going down there
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Sat, 01-15-2005 - 11:22am
my partner always wants 2 please me with oral sex. When he does go down, i really enjoy it but i have 2 b really drunk 2 do it and i dont no why. Really need help with this?

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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 11:38am

Hi Clare:


Drunk? Cunnilingus is a ONE way to please the woman.

 

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Registered: 01-15-2005
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 11:54am
I cant quite see how he(my man) would enjoy it, but he assures me that he loves it, he's really good at it. Think i'm just a bit shy. I'm very clean and hygenic!
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 2:51pm

It's pretty sad that you feel you have to be drunk to enjoy sex! Actually, being drunk dulls your senses, and you'd enjoy it even MORE if you'd be sober.

You don't HAVE to be drunk, you're using that as a crutch. To get over that idea, just let him do it when you're NOT drunk. After all, he SAID he loves doing it..so let him. There's NOTHING to be shy about.

Do NOT rely on alcohol to get you thru anything uncomfortable in life...you'll become more and more reliant on that. Be a mature adult, and just DO it without using a crutch. The problem is yours, and when you sober up, the problem is still there. Better to confront the problem, and cure it once and for all. It's simply a matter of doing it, and realizing that it's better when you're in control of your senses, not when the alcohol is in control of you.

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Registered: 01-15-2005
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 2:56pm
Thanx!
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Registered: 01-15-2005
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 3:35pm
I had that problem before Drew and I got together. You need to relax before he goes down on you....one day just tell him that you want to experiment, lay down on your back with you legs up a lil, and tell him to be slow, and if you say stop then he has to stop. Tell him what you like done, whether its on the upper or inner....tell him to be gentle, and ease into it slowley
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Registered: 08-16-2005
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 4:54pm
I love when my guy goes down on me.

 



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Registered: 01-15-2005
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 8:42pm
I know it seems really weird....but this is what Drew did to me. He turned a porn on...odd, I know....and he made me watch the way they did things and the facials they made. It proved to me that it was natural, and it actually isn't that horrible looking. I know its an embarassing question, but at you shaved or trimed? I know that hair can be preferred by some people, but I am totally against it. if you're shaved you get to see what you really really look like. Take a mirror to yourself again, lay back on some pillows and posistion yourself to where you can completely see yourself. Maybe that will help. And then again, Drew constantly told me how pretty it was, and how much he loved going down on me. It helped a lot
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 10:01pm

Your vaginal area is just as sexy looking as the rest of you.


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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 01-15-2005 - 10:05pm

Don't give in to alcohol to enjoy receiving oral from your partner.


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Registered: 08-16-2005
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 6:29am

Thank you for your advice. I been keeping it pretty much shaved.

 



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