going solo. tips please.
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going solo. tips please.
| Sat, 03-26-2005 - 11:16am |
a couple of my friends have admitted to using different objects during solo sex, just objects they have around their room or house. Is this safe? im not sure whether to try it and if so what kind of objects are suitable, as i dont want to go and buy anything?
the other issue is i have tried using my fingers before and it felt uncomfotable and not at all pleasurable. I have tried since and still the same thing happens, could this be down to not really knowing what im doing because my fingers dont seem to go any further in than a few centimetres.
does anyone have any tips on pleasuring yourself externally down there. help.plz

And don't be put off if it takes you a few goes, it took me a bit of trial and error too.
Have fun! :)
Why use different objects? Dildos and vibrators aren't expensive and are not only safe but *designed* for a woman's pleasure.
As to fingers, I don't insert my fingers when masturbating. I instead use them to fondle/touch/massage/whatever my clitoris.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
Many household objects are safe to use (make sure they are washed well first).