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Good Girl Gone Bad...
| Thu, 12-07-2006 - 1:01pm |
My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life! However, I want to bring something new into the bedroom. We have talked about roll playing and both agree that that is something we want to do. But I want to do something for him, like a sexy outfit or talking dirty, maybe surprise him with a toy and possibly video camera. I just dont know how to go about it. Do I just put the outfit on and come out? What kind of things can I say? It isnt a comfort zone issue, we are very comfortable and very open. Its just an approach issue, I want to bring it in in a subtle yet sexy way... any ideas?
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Being christmas time it's a great time to "play" dressup. You can try the "santa" outfit by just wearing red dress/skirt (short), red stilletos, white stockings, red/white sexy undergarments. Seeing that you already spoke to him about it and he's fine with it, you can surprise him. Get some red, white and green candles and place them around the room, turn off the light and get a misstletoe.
Lay on the bed in a sexy way and when he comes in the room you hold the misstletoe above your head and tell him to come kiss you. You can probably say "Come over here big boy and kiss me... I've been waiting for you". Keep it within the theme, so you can ask him to tell santa what he wants for christmas.
When it comes down to dirty talk, just tell him how you're feeling and ask him what he's feeling in a dirty way, make a lot of sexy sounds (ooh, ahh, mmm), touch his body, and use body movement and eyes contact. I also suggest starting out slowly and within the context of what you are sure both of you like or have discussed doing, meaning don't do anything that you're not sure he'll like. You can say things like "I love your hard *alternate word for penis*" or "I want to feel you *alternate word for penis* inside my *wherever you want it*".
I must say this, when it comes on the video taping your sexual excapades you have to make sure that:
1. He's someone that you can trust to do this with
2. Keep the tapes safe (locked away, lol) - I suggest that you keep the tapes or delete the footage after you watch it
3. If both of you break up - destroy the tapes
My bf and I are going to introduce the camcorder into our relationship but I'm also getting a safe that only I have access to. I do trust him but I want to be careful - someone else can stumble across it.
Good luck!!
Edited 12/7/2006 2:09 pm ET by princess_j2006
Next time you are about to go to the movies (or the grocery store or to get gas) try this:
When you are both out of your home but very close to the car - tell him you have to run back real quick as you forgot something and he should wait in the car. Once you are back inside take off your top etc and just keep your jacket on with nothing underneath and get back to the car.
When you get to where you are going - give him a peek at what you did!!!