Goosed

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Registered: 05-22-2003
Goosed
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Tue, 12-20-2005 - 11:29am
I've got a question that I just thought of that I've always wondered about. How common is it for you women to get a little butt squeeze from an unknown guy at a club as he passes by you? Has it ever happened to you? How did/would you respond?
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: matt2005
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 1:26pm

On the reverse side of the issue, I in my pre-married days have gotten a flirty or even a drunken pinch or two from a lady here or there, whether at the bar or other get together...

...never from one I know though. As much as I've heard about this topic, I'm still surprised at the number of 'single' women who seemed flattered compared to those who were offended. I guess it just depended on how cute the guy was at the time?, LOL, really couldn't figure that one out.

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: matt2005
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 1:56pm
Well, it's never happened to me in the States. In Italy, and elsewhere, it's fairly common. Flirting is one thing but I don't appreciate that kind of familiarity myself. There are other, more respectful ways, to show your interest and you always run the risk of being slapped or having the police get involved. Hello, Christian Slater!
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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: matt2005
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 3:28pm
Yep, I've had it happen on several occasions. One night I even had a group of three guys stand behind me and all take their turns and when I turned around one of them said, "Great butt". I always turn around and glare at them, and if they do it again they get a warning. Luckily no one's ever taken it past the warning, or there would've been trouble.

 


 


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Registered: 06-25-2005
In reply to: matt2005
Wed, 12-21-2005 - 12:16am

New to the board....and thought this was an interesting question.
Personally?? I get 'goosed' all the time. The drive-by goosings are my favorite. You know the scene-a crowded bar squeezing through the mass of people..on the street at a parade....you spot him... the 'playa'... hair a little too gel'y...eyes a little too eager..outfit a little too put together...you lock eyes -you think.."Is he looking over my shoulder at someone else or is he being coy?" all the while you are trying to keep an eye on your gang and keep track of where you are going, careful not to spill your beverage or step on toes. Then you pass and you feel it..but you're not sure...you turn around and he's gone...lost in the crowd. No sweat! You know you look good..so maybe you will 'pay it forward!'

On the other hand....
If the dude is totally sweatin' it and he has his shirt unbuttoned and is pinching you trying to get a leg up at the bar or as a desperate attempt at a handshake..NO FREAKIN" WAY!!! There is time and a place for these 'gestures'

besides..I prefer a good ol' fashioned smack on the a%#!! hahahahahaha

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: matt2005
Wed, 12-21-2005 - 7:45am

Yes it has and let's just say the guy who did it will definitely think twice before he does it to someone else.


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