Great guy, but the sex is horrible!
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Great guy, but the sex is horrible!
| Wed, 07-28-2004 - 2:03pm |
I have been in a relationship for a while now and the man is WONDERFUL!
| Wed, 07-28-2004 - 2:03pm |
I have been in a relationship for a while now and the man is WONDERFUL!
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Sex is a huge part in the relationship especially if there's a problem..
Good luck and remember, there are plenty of good ones still out there ;-)
~Love
I would suggest sitting down (not during sex!) and discussing your points. perhaps you can write a letter to him and read it to him aloud of what you are feeling, or make an outline of what you want to say to him (written down so you dont' forget or get embarassed). Perhaps the two of you should see a therapist together, or just him alone if it is his issue.
Like others said though, this is unacceptable. Sex is not the whole of the relationship but it is an important part. It also reflects other aspects of hte relationship, so it's possible you didn't tell us everything and maybe he's selfish in the rest of your relationship also but you can't see it. If he continues to be selfish, get far far away!
Sandra
Thanks everyone!
C h a r a c t e r
above all else
Mr. Para
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If you sit daown and communicate your feelings and there is not some sort of immediate change, I would say you have a serious problem, but if he has half a brain and any feelings for you he'll understand and should change.
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