Great showers a myth?

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Registered: 08-11-2006
Great showers a myth?
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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 10:23am
my bf and i often have showers together, and it is very sweet and stimulating, although whenever we try to actually have sex in the shower, it just doesnt seem to work, he is about a head height taller than me, and sitting down in the shower just isn't good. i really would like the experience, if there are any suggestions?? it would be greatly appreciated!
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Registered: 06-28-2006
Fri, 08-11-2006 - 11:02am
I think that you should get those mats that you cant slip on and put one leg up and have the other holding balance,or try the tub sex with warm warm water, its great. Be careful if you use bubbles because you might get irritated afterwards.
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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 5:32pm
experiment with doggie..
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Registered: 08-11-2006
Fri, 08-11-2006 - 7:46pm
well, you can go togather innside the shower,start kissing, then heavy kissing and touching and just get off the shower, donot dry at all yr selves, go to other place, may be the bedroom, and make it all there, but there will be a mess, which is really seem to be turning on the moode....
donot forget to tell me if it worked!!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 11:47am

My then DH & I experimented with the shower when we were dating. It was too cramped. We ended up doing it doggy style on the bathroom floor. On vacation once we had a nice hotel with a HUGE shower. There was a ledge on one side, so I sat on that for support with one leg up so he could enter me that way. It was HOT & SEXY! Doggy would have worked in that big shower, also.

I think sex in the hot tub is VERY overrated. We rented a hotel suite once with a huge whirlpool tub. It was a great vacation (we dubbed this our naked vacation because every time we were in the room we were naked and in the tub!) Since the water washes away all my natural lubrication, sex in the water didn't work for us. However, we were just a short walk to the bed to take care of our urges. It was an incredible, sexy, vacation, that makes me excited just writing about it.

Anybody else have tips for sex in the shower and/or hot tub?

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Registered: 01-26-2005
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 6:08pm

From a lubrication standpoint DW and I have had success with Silicon based lubes... Only drawbacks is you cannot use them with silicon toys or condoms (it weakens the latex and may cause it to break). But other than that it worked great for us!

Also I think there is a new NON-Silicon based waterproof lube from Wet, havent tried it though so I do not know how well it works.

Good Luck!
-k

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Registered: 04-10-2006
Mon, 08-14-2006 - 1:39pm

If you have a tub with the shower head in it (like we do), my DW and I have found a couple of good positions for showersex, but it is important to have some sort of nonslip surface on the floor of the tub!

1. She will climb up on the edge of the tub and lean back onto the shower wall. I will enter her standing up, hold her up and then pin her against the back wall with her facing the shower curtain. She can then place her feet on the edge of the tub for balance and then hang on to either the wall or my neck. I can then pump away!

2. Standing doggie style with her facing the shower spray. She leans over so the shower is pelting her back as I enter her from behind. She can brace herself with her arms and hands against the wall.

But BE CAREFUL! We have pulled down many shower curtains with our water aerobics! I have also found that we both can get a bit light-headed and weak-in-the-knees after orgasm if the water is too hot and the room becomes too steamy!

Our plan is to renovate our bathroom sometime in the near future and put in a new shower with one of those built-in benches for a little more comfort and ease to our soapy fun!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-14-2006 - 5:44pm
Unless you have a built in ledge in your shower, it's just too dangerous to attempt intercourse in the shower. We've always started foreplay in the shower and then dried off and moved to the bed.