Grinding to Orgasm

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Grinding to Orgasm
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Tue, 10-18-2005 - 12:12pm
Has anyone had any success with, when in missionary position, having their guy's penis deep inside them and then he kind of grinds on you, has anyone had an orgasm because of this? I am having a really though time with having an orgasm and am looking for any help.
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 1:27pm
We have done something similar that makes my DW have an orgasm.
Using the missionary position, When I go all the way in I grind my pelvis into hers then push up and forward so that I ride up onto her clitoris. Then I pull out and start the process again. As I speed up I increse the force of thrust and thus the impact of our pelvis it drives her wild from the hit and grind.
Not quite a grind but a derivation that works for us.
-gerry-



-Gerry-






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Registered: 11-15-2003
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 2:16pm

River,

That works for my wife.

Peace,
Scott.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 3:05pm

If the base of his erection is rubbing against your clitoris because he's riding higher in missionary, then it's possible but it's certainly not a given for every woman.

Why not just ask for or provide manual clitoral stimulation? Then, you don't have to be limited to one or two positions for that contact.

80% of us don't orgasm from intercourse alone, so it's generally NOT the most effective way to reach orgasm. It's like stimulating the shaft on a penis while completely ignoring the head where all the sensitivity is!




Edited 10/18/2005 3:09 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 06-14-2002
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 3:31pm

My DW orgasmes that way quite often, if I can last long enough. She is especialy fond of reverse missionary (woman on top) where I can push her hips down onto me.

CH

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Registered: 07-03-2005
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 6:27am

Yes that is good. I would have reached orgasm if the guy I was with would have kept it up but he was kinda selfish and didnt.

I say keep going at it. And dont put to much pressure on yourself to orgasm. When it happens it will happen. If it doesnt and Im/your satisfied then it doesnt really matter about orgasm.

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Registered: 08-02-2005
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 8:30pm
What my boyfriend does to me is he goes on top and i put my legs on his shoulders, and i lift my bum up. Doing this postion hits my g spot. While hes doing this you stimulate you ciltoris with a tiny vibrator. After a bit it will bring you to a mind blowing orgasm.
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Registered: 07-12-2005
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 10:26pm
I have had success with that position and it's usually from clit stimulation. Sometimes, and it's very occasional, I will orgasm simply by thinking about the actual act of grinding and how erotic it is. Sometimes if I get too over stimulated nothing's gonna happen!