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Mon, 09-11-2006 - 1:54pm
I was wondering if anyone would know how to find a masturbation group. I have searched high and low but to no avail. I am in the st.louis area and I have never heard of them around here. I was wondering if someone could help.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jenn1960
Mon, 09-11-2006 - 10:39pm
A WHAT?
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: jenn1960
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 6:06am

Yes, Kat, they exist...

I like to watch "Real Sex" on HBO and they had this very thing on one of the segments. It was a very organized "gathering" at a person's home (they obviously get paid to host). They specifically outline the "rules" (no drugs or sex in any other context other than masturbation). Although, I have to say, it may be misleading, because I did not see any of the twelve or so people touching themselves at all--only others. When they first get together, they sit around naked and talk about masturbation and whatever. One woman was sitting next to this older man and while he was in mid-sentence, nonchalantly went over and spread his legs that were crossed (man style) and made some comment about "hiding himself." ;-) I can't remember if she fondled him a little. But basically, that's all it is, an orgy of manual stimulation (toys were used as well).

Perhaps, this is the sign of the times -- "safe sex orgies." ;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: jenn1960
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 8:43am

We watch Real Sex too and


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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: jenn1960
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 8:56am
Although I can't imagine participating in anything so weird, why don't you contact HBO, and maybe they can put you on to the people who run THAT group. Maybe you could become a "group" leader in St.Louis!
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: jenn1960
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 5:24pm
tee hee Tish, I was looking more at the facial expressions of the black woman who was manhandling him (she may have had a cattle prod)! She reminded me of a three year-old who just made a poo poo in the potty and was pointing at it with pride! ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jenn1960
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 6:07pm
Why don't you put an ad in the personals in your local paper?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jenn1960
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 6:10pm
I must be getting old. My first reaction was "WEIRD!" THEN "GROSS!" I can't imagine anyone showing up that I would want to fondle!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: jenn1960
Tue, 09-12-2006 - 8:28pm

Oh yes, she was very proud of herself for doing a good job.


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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: jenn1960
Wed, 09-13-2006 - 1:06am
I'm curious. What do you hope to "find" by finding a masturbation group?
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Registered: 01-16-2005
In reply to: jenn1960
Wed, 09-13-2006 - 4:35am

Hi

I know what you are talking about and I have seen that episode of Real Sex. The clubs that I am familiar with are in very large cities primarily in California, San Fransico and Los Angles. Also I believe there are some in New York City. However if you are not in a large metropolitan city I do not believe you will have much luck finding them.