gspot & oral sex

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Registered: 04-15-2004
gspot & oral sex
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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 5:20pm
Can anyone give me pointers on how to give wife oral sex & hit g spot at the same time?? I must be uncoordinated but I cannot seem to find the right positioning to do both at the same time. Really need help!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 5:40pm
my favorite is when i'm on my back and the guy is working on the labia/clit and uses his finger to stimulate the g-spot simultaneously.

i've had some guys get the wacky idea that they can find my g-spot with their tongue. this has never worked for me.

how are you doing it? not sure what's not working for you.

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Registered: 04-15-2004
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 6:18pm
I cannot seem to position my head to allow for room for my hand to do the come hither with my fingers. It seems very awkward as I am facing her to stick my hand in while rubbing her clit with my tongue.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-15-2004 - 6:33pm
Put a big pillow under her butt. Its way easier when the girl is propped up.

Sara

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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 6:36pm
are you on your stomache? maybe you can prop yourself up on your elbow and use that hand for fingering or prop yourself up with one arm and use the other one for fingering while your wife uses her hands to spread her lips?

hmmm, not sure exactly how they do it. this question may be better answered by the guys.

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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 6:38pm
You could always invest in a dildo-type vibrator angled specifically for g-spot stimulation. Might be easier on your wrist! WWW.Xandria.com or other sites carry them.
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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 6:40pm
She is on the edge of the bed & I am kneeling facing her.
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Thu, 04-15-2004 - 7:47pm
are you able to find her g-spot manually when you aren't doing oral? or is this a matter of finding her g-spot in a way other than through intercourse? if the former, it just seems a matter of trying out different positions. if the latter, you should work on finding her g-spot without oral first -- ask her and have her direct you.
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Registered: 04-08-2004
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 10:00am
I have found a few techniques that seem to work well. One of which is very simple. As I am performing oral for my SO, I just bring one hand up, under her thigh and over the top. That puts it in the correct position to manually stimulate the clit through the top of her hood. The other arm I sort of lay on, bringing my hand up to enter her. Using two fingers, generally middle two, I massage the G-Spot and surrounding tissue. By using two fingers I have found it a lot easier to bring a woman to multiple orgasms, or sustaining one long, powerful one. She gets both clitoral and g-spot stimulation, and I get a sweet ride. The g-spot can be massaged on both sides, as well as direct approach. Both fingers inside are massaging both the G-Spot, and the roots of the clitorus. Make a V out of the fingers and then alternate a come here type motion with both. Try different strokes obviously, and find the ones that really work for her. Just rubbing the g or clit roots in this manner should do the trick, quite nicely. The orgasms produced for the women I have done this too are nothing short of awesome. For me, it is like a dream come true. I get much more enjoyment from giving during sex than I do from recieving. Don't get me wrong, I love to cum, but if I am not pleasing her, to the utmost, than sex is not as good for me. I am a very giving and unselfish partner, generally. Give that a shot. I am sure it will blow her mind.
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Registered: 01-04-2004
Fri, 04-16-2004 - 11:26am
Just reading how you do it, make me want to run home to my BF for a quickie.

Thanks, you made my day!
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Registered: 04-08-2004
Mon, 04-19-2004 - 9:38am
LOL. Glad I could pass on a little piece of happiness to someone out there. LOL I will not be using it for a very long time probably. LOL

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