guilty conscience

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Registered: 11-08-2004
guilty conscience
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Tue, 11-09-2004 - 2:57pm
im so confused right now, im with someone and i've been with him for 3 yrs, off and on..one time when we had an argument i went over to my cousins house and met a friend..next thing i know we are in his room doing it...after that we never talked, should i tell the one i'm with what i did to him? I'm scared, i'm a very truthfull person..but I feel if i tell him he might leave me, and I don't want to be alone..what do i do?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: mz_d04
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 3:18pm

That is a choice you are going to have to make.


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Registered: 05-31-2004
In reply to: mz_d04
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 3:18pm
look every one makes mistakes you said on and off for three years do you realy love him or are you just afraid of being alone. if its just being alone than YOU need to end it your only holding each other back if you love him tell him the truth he deserves it If booth of you want it to work you can over come anything.
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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: mz_d04
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 3:42pm
If you really care for your boyfriend, DON'T tell him. While you will be easing your conscience - you will be hurting him. Isn't it better to keep the agony to yourself and spare him? View it as your punishment if you will.

Instead, learn from the experience. And as Tish said, perhaps it's time to re-consider your relationship

good luck

Aisha

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: mz_d04
Tue, 11-09-2004 - 5:07pm
Frankly I think that you should consider breaking up with your b/f. I get the feeling that your relationship has reached it's natural end. That could be the reason that you are fighting and had sex with someone else so easily.

Not wanting to be alone is a really dumb reason for staying with someone. You should be doing it because you love your b/f and want to be with him. Not because you don't want to be alone.