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Guy to last longer
| Wed, 02-14-2007 - 3:53pm |
My guy was a virgin up until he met me. We recently had sex for the first time. I know a lot of it had to do with emotions and jitters, but he came very fast. He was very frustraited with himself, but I told him not to worry and to just relax, but every time after that, he was still quick. Are there any ways that I can either get him to relax, or to last longer?

Practive practice practice....someone's got to do it!!!
You / he has to learn this stuff too.
Send him to some web sites.
Resit the temptation to sit on his face for a little while till he gets use to you!!! LMAO
Get him to warm you up in advance a little bit.
Here's a very effective technique. Have you - or himself - masturbate using lubricant. KY or similar lube is good; hand lotion or baby oil works well but can sting a little if it gets in the opening. This better simulates the feeling of a lubricated vagina, and work on stopping just before orgasm. Rest until the pulse slows a little, then repeat.
I didn't have much experience before meeting DW, and due to the tremendous excitement level I didn't last long. I read this just after meeting DW and within days could last 45 minutes. Good luck - have fun - be safe.