guy not ejaculating

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Registered: 07-18-2004
guy not ejaculating
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Sun, 07-18-2004 - 11:38pm
My new boyfriend says that he has never ejaculated from a blowjob or a hand job.. only through self-masturbation and intercourse. I didnt believe him at first.. but after giving him head for an hour.. and no cum..i dont know what to do. I have never not been able to get a guy off from head before. I feel so bad and am really confused as to why he can not ejaculate even tho he says that he gets really close a bunch of times. Any ideas on what is wrong or what I can do to get him off?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 12:57am
Try using your hand on the lower part of the shaft while you concentrate on the top part with your mouth. Double stimulation!
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 07-19-2004 - 1:19am
This is NOT unusual, and there's not a thing YOU can do about it. You don't control it, he does. It has nothing to do with you, what you're doing or not doing. There are many guys that can't climax from oral sex. You've just never encountered one before.

The best thing you can do is stop worrying about it, and stop trying to "force" it because you're only making matters worse. Now HE feels bad, because YOU feel bad, and that's not going to help him in any way.

If you enjoy doing it for him, then do it. When you get tired, stop. He's still enjoying what you're doing, but you're taking away HIS pleasure by being all upset about it.