FOR THE GUYS!

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Registered: 12-30-2004
FOR THE GUYS!
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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 11:44am
Do most of you like your women dressed or undressed for sex? Is it better if she is in a full outfit and you undress her or a sexy silky outfit or nude? What or which one is a bigger turn on?
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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: gal_robin
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 12:05pm
what ever she has on I like to take it off..lol
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Registered: 06-14-2002
In reply to: gal_robin
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 12:08pm

While my DW has a very beautiful body, I enjoy it when she takes the extra effort to dress special for me. She has a variety of choices. Sometimes she puts on sexy street clothes (short shorts/skirts, tight skimpy tops), or more conservative wear, or swim suits, or lingerie, or variations on the above. I also enjoy unwrapping the package.

CH

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Registered: 03-30-2000
In reply to: gal_robin
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 12:36pm

I love my DW's body, but having her in some slinky lingerie is like her giftwrapping herself for me. Can be a long negligee or a skimpy babydoll, it's the idea she's deliberately dressing up for sex.

And we all know how much fun it is unwrapping gifts :-).

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: gal_robin
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 3:50pm

Well, since my DH won't come within a mile of this board, I'll answer for him.

He prefers me buck naked. Even when I'm wearing my slinkiest, sexiest lingerie, he can't wait to get it off. So, most of the time I don't bother....unless I'm teasing him!

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Registered: 03-31-2004
In reply to: gal_robin
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 5:11pm
I'm a big fan of lingerie, although I wouldn't turn sex down from my wife no matter what she had on. I love it when she slips something sexy on and we have a long foreplay session before sex. Most of the lingerie she owns, i've bought for her and she loves to tease me with it.
Although having a girl walk into the bedroom wearing nothing but a robe, and opening it up, is very hot also!
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Registered: 01-15-2005
In reply to: gal_robin
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 11:18am
Hi my partner thinks its sexy to have a full outfit on and then let him undress you!
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Registered: 09-20-2004
In reply to: gal_robin
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 12:07pm

Yea I'm a guy and I can't get my love to visit these boards,she'll barely read the magazine even although we've been getting it for over 4 years and she benefits from what I learn reading it. so it cut's both ways

As to the origional topic there is something arousing for both partie's that you have each made the effort to dress up for each other even if it's only to undress each other later.
There is for me anyway fewer more arousing sight's than sweet teasing glimpse's of the woman you love encapsulated in sexy lingerie waiting to be unwrapped when you get home hour's later and the suspense is just amazing.

By all means you'll want to take the lingerie off so we can feast out eyes on the whole delightfull package when the time is right.
cheers Jacobite

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: gal_robin
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 1:49am
Don't misunderstand...my DH is very interested in the topic of sex in general but he thinks sharing intimate details of one's life with strangers on a message board is silly and a little weird. We've both benefitted from info. gleaned from written articles, the Web and yes, this board, though.
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Registered: 09-20-2004
In reply to: gal_robin
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 7:21am
Yes my love has similar thoughts
But it's a lot easier to share advice and experiances via a message board,
with potentially more fullfilling results than any other way I know without fear of embarassment, and lets face it you can ask questions you would never even ask your doctor and it's a bit of fun too
cheers Jacobite