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guys advice please and girls
| Wed, 06-30-2004 - 1:05am |
I have been with my b/f now for 4 yrs and he is 19 i just found out that he jacks off like twice a day why when he could have me and if i couldnet be with him that day why not just hold off till we can be together please help someone i need some advice i just guess i dont get it

Sometimes people just want to get off without having to think about someone else, masturbating is fun and easy, just you to think about; bliss. Sex for a guy involves a lot of work and effort, and being concerned with someone else's pleasure. When you just want fun, masturbation is great.
It's similar to fixing a snack instead of cooking a meal; sometimes you just want the easy option.
Why on Earth should he wait for you to be around?
Guys of 19 have a high sex drive and masturbating a couple of times a day is really normal. As long as he can still perform when you want him there is no problem.
In fact, some guys often masturbate just before they go to see a g/f and have sex so that they last longer with her! Usually they'd cum real fast the first time and take longer the second time!
Masturbating is fun and easy. It feels good and most guys can easily give themselves an orgasm inside 5 minutes without having to worry about the whole sex routine of getting clothes on and off, getting into bed and having to worry about pleasing anyone else.
Basically, it feels good and they can do it and it doesn't affect their sex life with their partner. Why not?
Men masturbate, women masturbate, whether they're in a relationship, married, that doesn't matter.
Stephen
It keeps them healthy and happy. Also, since they aren't overly excited when they see you (physically, not emotionally), they can last longer. At first, I was kind of put off by it, but now I appreciate it. Granted, I don't want to know about it unless I can have a hand in it *wink* don't even worry about it. it's entirely normal. and maybe you can offer to help him next time so he'll think about you when he does it or will want to wait until you can be there to lend a hand.