? for guys: define how a girl is good

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Registered: 03-04-2007
? for guys: define how a girl is good
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Thu, 12-18-2008 - 9:48pm

I just have to ask, because it's been bugging me!!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 9:53pm
No, guys don't really talk among ourselves like that. Immature guys might say something along the lines of, "I nailed her last night," but that's about as far as it goes. The focus is on "I had sex with her", not on her performance.

As for your real question, what makes a woman good in bed is: confidence, enthusiasm, playfulness, a sense of adventure, and a basic willingness to take off her dignity with her clothes and give it her whorish best. Bad in bed would be: just lays there, looks at the ceiling, doesn't move, doesn't say anything, and acts like she'd rather be getting her nails done.


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Registered: 03-04-2007
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 10:03pm
awesome, thanks!!!
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Registered: 08-11-2006
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 11:35pm
Very well said Steve.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 11:52pm

I agree with Bostonsteve.

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Registered: 04-18-2008
Fri, 12-19-2008 - 6:51am
You got great answers here. My dh says all sex is good when I am into it but it is the BEST when I obviously am enjoying it. My getting off gets him off. Good thing his getting off gets me off and we go on and on...
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 12-19-2008 - 8:26am

Steve said it all.


Be enthusiastic, get into it, enjoy it, leave the *lady* outside the bedroom door and let the whore come out.

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Registered: 09-24-2004
Fri, 12-19-2008 - 2:02pm

Amen sister, that is some excellent advice!

I might also throw a little reverse cowgirl action is as well....

Be aggressive, make it obvious you are also going after what you want, the way you want it....leave him speechless, that's a girl he will think about the next day.

And Steve is right, I don't know where the rumor started that guys talk about sex with their dates/wives/girlfriends. They do however have group discussions on EVERY nice looking woman that walks by. ;-)

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Registered: 10-26-2006
Fri, 12-19-2008 - 4:22pm

I am saying for sure you are very young/inexperienced, one or both. Holding your breath? Strange. Men do prefer for a woman to be able to take their whole penis in their mouths during oral sex but not the whole time. Not even porn stars do that! I vary deep throating, licking the sides, balls, etc.

The guy is not always giving it to you? GET ON TOP! Good god! And yes there are tons of ways to be on your back. Knees raised, legs oh his shoulders, knees bent and pressed against his chest, one leg up, with a pillow underneath..... I could go on and on and on.

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Registered: 03-04-2007
Fri, 12-19-2008 - 5:16pm

Ok, I didn't mean I hold my breath literally.

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Registered: 12-21-2006
Fri, 12-19-2008 - 5:52pm
I'm confused. What's a "bad" blowjob??

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